How do you know if someone has crossed over from being Bi-sexual to being Gay? only serious answers please?

[Anonymous]

[Miristheiss]

Homosexual basically means you have zero sexual attraction to the opposite sex.
Often someone gay can't have girl/boy sex because it repulses them to touch the opposite sex that way. If you are able to have sex with either and find both sexually attractive than you are bi.

[Asker]

This person claims they still have attraction to girls but he and I have basically been pretty close for many years and yes we have had sex in the past any time I have wanted sex he hasn’t hesitated seeing me same as me when he has wanted sex but for months now he is constantly telling me how he has been hooking up with guys but yet he won’t have sex with me and has basically said he isn’t interested in having sex with any other girl only me yet he won’t have sex with me but is more than happy to have sex with guys he is dead set convinced he is bi sexual but things he is saying and doing is telling me he might have crossed over but I don’t know how to approach this or if it’s just best to leave it alone and continue just being friends with him especially since I am the only one who know this about him

[Asker]

Thank you

[ChrisMaster69]

You don’t really, it’s something they would tell you.

obviously bi means both sexes, where as gay / lesbian is same sex attraction.

the thing is there is no big badge saying someone’s sexuality.

The only way you would know is to ask them.

[PrettyPriya]

If they no longer are attracted to both genders, they are no longer "bi".

[Asker]

Thank you

[Chase111]

Good andwer

[PrettyPriya]

Thank you for MHG 😊

[horatiohornblower]

If you no longer have sexual interest in the opposite gender but only the same gender. You are gay.

[Asker]

Thank you

[jaybee281]

Well you should ask yourself - "Why are you GAEEEE"

[Asker]

It’s not about me

[DonkeyDan]

They no longer want to date the opposite sex and find no attraction towards them.

[slatyb]

Serious answer? It's not a serious question. There's no hard boundary, and anyway it doesn't matter. Why would you ever need to know that about someone? If you want to date someone, then just ask them.

[wankiam]

is this about you or another person? if its you then its when you cease to be sexually and romantically attracted to men. if its someone else then you are probably best off asking them directly if they have changed

[Asker]

It’s about another person, they confessed to me a long time ago that they were Bi I’m the only person who knows this about them but as of lately they have been saying things that have made me seriously question if they have crossed over to being gay but I don’t know exactly if they have and this is something I don’t know how to approach because they keep saying they aren’t gay they are more Bi but it’s the things they are saying and the things they have confessed that they have done that makes me wonder

[wankiam]

well i guess you have to let them figure it out first in that case.

[Asker]

Took him 5 years of us knowing each other for him to find out he was Bi I will definitely stand by and allow him to figure things out I won’t push him or nag him I’ll just continue being supportive thank you for your help thank you

[wankiam]

yeah it would be no good trying to rush him i guess but if you are emotionally invested yourself i guess all i can advise is being patient but at the same time dont put your life on hold too long

[Asker]

Thank you for the advice it’s really helpful thank you

[wankiam]

no worries, its what im here for so if you ever want to chat further you know where i am ;)

[AviatorTom]

I'm not sure someone who is Bi ever becomes Gay. They may stop seeing the other sex because they prefer their own sex, but deep down, they are still Bi.

[CTOswald]

Um, you don't. That's a question only that person can answer. And when they answer that question for themselves, if they choose to share that information with you, then, and only then, will you know. Besides, unless this is a partner, how could it possibly matter?

[Wise4myage]

They only date their own sex?

[Asker]

Thank you

[Wise4myage]

Your welcome.

[okeydoke]

That's not how bisexuality works.

[Twalli]

One guy thought he was straight and then after an introspective search and help from an ex girlfriend came out as gay. 10 weeks later he came out as bisexual, so you can change, but I don't think you go bisexual to gay, but you can have a gender preference

[EnglishEuropean]

It's hard to tell because a lot of gay folks identify as bi. Don't ask me how I know.

[nudeNhorny]

who is the person in question?

[Waldoe]

Ask...

[2021biguy]

If someone is bi they have will sex with both guys and girls.

[Asker]

I know this but my question was in regards to how do you know when they are no longer Bi but have crossed over and are now no longer Bi but rather Gay. Sorry for the confusion with my question

[2021biguy]

Hi, if they crossed over they won't have sex with the opposite gender anymore, only same sex. I'm bi but would only fall in love with a girl.

[Asker]

Thank you for explaining appreciate it thank you

[2021biguy]

You're welcome and add me if you want a friend :)

[Aries_Man_90]

if they stopped feeling attracted to the opposite sex

[Anonymous]

They are older than 25

[Anonymous]

for a woman when the sight of dicks doesn't arouse her anymore or the sight of a guy who's shirtless doesn't arouse her anymore.
for a guy when big sized hooters knockers juggs doesn't turn him on and only the sight of cock does and guys without their shirt on does