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How do you know if you give good head?

So I’ve been with my boo for a couple months now and I’m new to all this. I warned him of my inexperience and also asked for communication on what he likes and wants. He always tells me that the sex is great however due to his people pleasing tendencies I’m worried he’s just trying to not make me feel bad. He almost always finishes just sometimes it takes him a minute. I don’t want to bring it up again and create anxiety for him. Are there any tips you guys can give me? How should I bring up the conversation of working on our communication? How do you know a man is enjoying himself?
Please help,
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  • In my personal experience, I really was bad at it at first (used some teeth and everything) and my boyfriend said it was good but gave some tips (I think that's the first sign) and then I didn't give one for like 5 months or so and I looked up on how to give on, since then he said I really approved and I sucked at it first. I also asked which type of techniques he likes, now after 2 years and a half of dating I know pretty well what he likes. Maybe you could ask in a subtle way what his preferences are? And always look at his face when you're doing it! It exposes his true feelings.

    • Thanks so much

    • Just noticed all the words I spelled wrong 😅 English is not my first language but still..

    • Haha all good girl I get what you’re saying 😅

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  • In the military we do an AAR after each mission. After Action Review. You have to list three things that went well and three things that could have gone better. "Everything was great" isn't an option because we're all going to sit here until somebody comes up with three things to improve. Infiltrated under cover of night, identified the target, isolated and exfiltrated undetected and made it to the RV? That's great, awesome, STILL could have gone better somehow. "It would have been nice if we'd had a better count on who all was in the compound. Next time let's have twice the breaching charges in case we need diversion. Comms direct to the bird could be nice in case things get wonky. Let's bring snacks."... something. There's ALWAYS room for improvement and that way you learn the other person's style. What's good for one person isn't good for everyone. I had sex AARs with all my long-term partners and it did worlds of good to keep our sex lives well above par.

  • I would say how long does it take him to cum? That's a pretty damn good indication. Answer my dirty poll when you have time

    Girls, Your man wants your tongue in his dirty spots, which do you choose?

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  • You can usually tell by their breathing and their body stiffening. 9 times outta 10 they’ll let out a breathy “Oh Fuuuu**” or something along those lines, fisting your hair, and quickly warning you that they’re either gonna cum or you better stop. Most men want you to attention to their balls, even if you just cup them. Also practice taking as much of him down your throat as you can, they won’t complain even if it makes you gag a little. Don’t use your teeth!

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  • pay attention to him and look at his face, his breathing, that tells you a lot, and you can always and perhaps you should simply ask him is it ok? should i do it differently etc. Communication and honesty are the key in a relationship.

    • i know you wanted an example of how to ask him but there isn't one, simply ask, its up to him to open up as you have and communicate with you, remember relationship is a 2-way street, you both need to be on the same page or it won't work later on, sex included

  • You know orgasm is approaching by shaky breathing and jerky thrusting. Also, it's not rare for us to hold our breath just before and then stiffen our legs and cross our ankles during the beginning of ejaculation and then out-of-breath deep breathing right after it.

    I never yelp, etc.

  • Head is like pizza. Nobody ever had bad pizza.

    • I had a guy tell me once that he’d been with women whose mouths felt more like a cheese grater.

    • @Mamaliv gross

    • Haha right?

  • Practice makes perfect.

  • By how sincere your man is after you blow him.

  • Repeat business

  • Did he cum? If so you did a good job.

  • Hii. Ahhh omg yes

  • he face and dick shows it easily.

  • When he is about to cum within a few minutes, you know you must be doing something right.

    • Makes sense, it takes him a while to cum. He’s blamed his antidepressant I’m just not sure if there’s something I could do better

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