How do you know if you had a orgasm during sex I want hear from both genders?

Do I got the wrong imagine that a guy orgasm once he cums and if he didn’t he “ truly didn’t enjoy the sex “ and for a female how exactly do you know if you had a orgasm? Being wet doesn’t necessarily mean I had a orgasm
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  • I've heard that men can orgasm without ejaculating. Such is not my experience. That said, I don't need to orgasm to enjoy sex. I like the sex itself and the act of pleasing. Orgasms are for alone time normally (not always 😅). As for women, i know there are internal and external orgasms. When a woman squirts its obvious (its very very wet everywhere) which is an external. There's also internal orgasms which is muscle tensing, especially in the core.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Well it’s pretty obvious for guys... there’s either cum inside, or cum everywhere. There’s a great feeling that comes with that. There are a few times where I have just pleased my girlfriend, it was all about her, and I didn't ejaculate. It felt great, almost the same feeling, but without the climax it wasn’t as euphoric

Most Helpful Girl

  • A deep deep pulse in your vagina, a strong bulid up then just ultimate release.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • "I just know" when it hits...
    "I just know" when it hits...
  • I don't always climax from sex. That doesn't mean I didn't enjoy it.

  • For a guy, ejaculation almost always accompanies orgasm. Sometimes, a guy can have a dry orgasm, where no ejaculation occurs, but the body's nervous system experiences irgasm.

  • It is unmistakable if you are male.

  • You just know. It's an indescribable feeling

  • For guys, it's an intense contraction of the penis followed by rhythmic ejaculation and then your genitals are throbbing and sore afterwards for a while. However, that doesn't mean that this happens every time. It's a common misconception amongst women that guys achieve orgasm when they have sex. Many times, a guy can ejaculate and not feel anything. No contractions. No feeling afterwards. He just shoots his load with no associated orgasmic pleasure. It's called ejaculatory anhedonia.

  • When I cum?

  • Sex feels good whether or not you cum. For most guys cumming=orgasm, but some guys can orgasm without cumming

  • It's a realy strong feeling. You absolutely know that when it happens

  • If you're not sure whether you've had one, you haven't.