How do you know if your boyfriend or husband is on the down low and actually likes men?

[Anonymous]

[provokeesmokee]

You don't unless he tells you or acts on his attraction in front of you. Even then, he might just be questioning and not actually gay. Or maybe bi or bicurious.

If you're having doubts, talk to him. If he is, and you can't deal with that, then let him go so he can explore and you can find a straight man.

[Screenwriter]

I don't know how you would know if your man was careful. Maybe if all his male friends were gay? If he didn't appear interested in having sex with you. If he avoided having sex with you.

But the whole point of the "down low" is somebody is doing it secretly. If the person is a good liar, maybe you'd never know.

[godfatherfan]

Does he like getting fucked in the ass, instead of fucking you in the ass? Does he look at gay porn? I mean, I have no idea since I am not gay. But if someone wants to hide it, they probably can hide it pretty good.

[ɹǝʇʇɐɥpɐW]

1.) He has Grindr on his phone.

2.) His "business papers" folder on his PC is full of gay porn.

3.) He rarely, if ever, wants to have sex with you, and prefers to go out with "the boys."

[spartan55]

He sexts with dudes.

[Apple1996]

All men are slightly gay. It's just how they are designed in nature. That's why the have a g spot in their ass

[Alex-Snow]

Do they watch gay porn? Do they think of guys or girls when they jerk off?

[babyjjade18]

I've had a bi boyfriend. Was so hot

[Asker]

Well you know I believe it’s a difference between a guy truly being into both men and women vs a guy only being with women to hide the fact he enjoys being with men more than women and actually is with men when he isn’t with all the women he sleeps around with.

[In_Trance]

Ask him

[nudeNhorny]

Check his porn history first then try to find out if he is sexting someone.
But what makes you make such an assumption in first place?

[Asker]

I haven’t made the assumption I just have this odd feeling or voice inside of me that keeps telling me that he is. He and I are no longer together but we do have a child together and it has been so many things that have been revealed to me since we went our separate ways for good. It hasn’t been anything revealed directly but you know how when you end a toxic relationship you think on all the bad things and you see those things/experiences from a different perspective than you did when it actually happened? Like when it actually happened you’re so blinded by “Love” at the time that you don’t see things clearly for what they are. It isn’t until you leave the situation entirely, start the healing process and putting the pieces tigger that you see things accurately.

[Asker]

*accurately

[nudeNhorny]

I meant were there any signs? Because without showing any signs you can't question his sexuality, beside you are saying that you are no longer together, so does it matter to you if he was?

[Anonymous]

If he watches porn, he is most likely bisexual or at least a little curious. Men love looking at naked men.

[Asker]

Well most straight men and even women watch porn. I would say the types of porn and how often he watches it would determine it though.

[Asker]

I don’t know. Truly heterosexual man who would one have or make the time to teach porn excessively if he has a job and also I don’t know a heterosexual man who would be into homosexual porn or trans porn etc

[Anonymous]

If you feel that way chances are good!

Does he like a strap on? Any gay questions?

Want a 3 some?

What porn does he like?

Does he like trans?

My man is bi well we both are!

[Djaay]

What does a strapon have to do with gay?

[Opinion Owner]

@Djaay a dick in his ass! How is that not gay? Lmao

[Djaay]

A woman wearing a strapon and doing a guy with it doesn't define him as gay. It's who you have sex with is what makes you gay or not.

[Opinion Owner]

@Djaay never said that it made him get but could be a clue if he is low key gay! Likeing it where gay men can only take it!

[Anonymous]

If they feel curious about that ass stuff or looking at that trans bullshit. Big red flag and a sign to run as fast as you can.