How do you learn to go down on a guy correctly?

[Anonymous]

I had a really bad experience with my first time trying to give head and he couldn't finish. I feel so humiliated because everyone always talks about how easy it is to make a guy finish compared to a girl. He tried to play ot off as a problem on his part, but it's hard for me to believe. I'm getting too old to not know how to do it right. Maybe I'm overthinking it? Maybe I'm underthinking it? I don't know what or who to practice on, but I really want to be good at it.

[Anonymous]

Going down on a dude is definitely not easy. The only reason I ever learned was because one day I ran into this girl from my school who had a LOT of sex, and for some random reason she decided to explain to me all the tips and tricks of going down on a guy. It’s a weird story, but it helped a lot.

You’re going to want to use a disgusting amount of spit. Like I mean to the point where it’s a slimy slippery mess. The wetter the better.

Second, you don’t have to go all the way down on his penis if you don’t want to or you simply haven’t mastered your gag reflex. Use your hands as well. You can move them in an up and down motions simultaneously with your mouth, or you could do like a pepper grinder motion. Don’t grip too hard though.

No teeth.

Play with his balls. If you’ve got really good hand coordination then you can have one hand massaging his balls, one on his shaft, while also using your mouth at the same time. You could also just put his balls in your mouth.

Be enthusiastic. Look him in the eye. Make it seem like you’re having the best time ever.

Build up the tension before actually going down on him. I probably should’ve put this at the top of the list. Before you put his penis anywhere near your mouth you should build up the anticipation by like kissing him all over. Start at his lips and work your way down. You could kiss, lick, or suck on his neck, then work your way down to his chest, you could flick his nipple with your tongue (some dudes are into that stuff) and then continue all the way down to his stomach and then pelvis.

Moan. It shows that you’re enjoying it and the vibrations from your vocal cords add an extra sensation.

You don’t have to swallow if you don’t want to. Some people are into that. Some people aren’t.

[Asker]

Thank you so much, you're a Saint! This is exactly the kind of answer I was looking for

[Opinion Owner]

No problem. I was exactly in your shoes a few years ago. The real hero is that gurl from my school who randomly decided to teach me this stuff.

[Opinion Owner]

*girl

[jmf909]

Use a mango skin as a glove and boost his ego tell him its so big. stroke down his inner thighs. talk dirty say shit l i ke blow on my face chin boobs what ever pull skin back to base hold tight as you can and softly touch around head of cock. mostly make the head of cock touch side of mouth. roof of mouth cheek. if stroking let finger tap on pee slit and he will cum in about five tugs Toothpaste helps with smell taste of cock now practice practice practice. i am available to test your ability anytime you wod like

[jacobsim]

Practice on a dildo if you really want to practice. but there are a lot of reasons a guy might not be able to cum. I wouldn't put it all on yourself if he said it was on him it very well could be an issue he is dealing with maybe medication maybe something else don't be too hard on yourself excuse the pun

[pajamasam]

There are plenty of guys who simply can't orgasm from just oral alone. I've only orgasmed from oral once and it took a LONG time. Dont take it personal.

[Mikelaughs]

Perhaps you are overthinking it.
Try to lighten up, relax!
I have much to say, but maybe we should talk about it where others can't see!

[slatyb]

Some guys will not climax from oral sex. Some guys will only climax from Oak sex if they are taking an active role. Don't worry about this. He's right, it's him, not you.

[libraboy]

If his dick is attractive and seductive to you, you won't need to learn anything, you'll yourself do it passionately as if you're about to eat his dick. You'll feel the taste and urge to suck it all.

But if his dick is just an average and you ain't finding it attractive, you won't do it correctly, you may, though, learn to pretend that you're deft.

[finallylettinggo]

Enjoy what you are doing and show enthusiasm to do this. Sometimes the reaction makes more of a difference than the actual skill. Also some guys just really do not get into that and prefer other stuff, don't get it myself but everyone is different. Just the simple fact that you do this and want to be better for him makes you a winner in my book.

[jmf909]

To be good you have to enjoy doing it
To do it properly he shouldn't have to ask

[jmf909]

If ypu want technique advice let me know

[MarkyMark77]

believe me that was his fault dont worry about it! have u sucked only one penis in ur life? i can give u tips if you want. can we chat?

[In_Trance]

He has to tell you what he likes/dislikes