How do you make yourself orgasm solo?

[Mahalia827]

I have never orgasmed before and would love to learn how to make myself have one

[PrettyPriya]

WARNING GRAPHIC

Ok, so here is my technique. I make sure I get good and wet. Finger in or out is up to you. It feels good but that isn’t where the action is. I kinda tease myself never fully hitting the clitoris at first. Just up/down the labia, almost tickle. If you do put a finger in, I find it nice to keep contact with the palm on the clit. Add a bit of pressure. Then I start working on the clit. When I start to have that feeling build, I personally am getting faster and harder at approximately 45 across, not up/down.

Sorted lol @chrismaster69

[exitseven]

I almost fell out of my chair.

[PrettyPriya]

@exitseven oh no! Did you have a crisis? Lmao 🤣

[exitseven]

@prettypriya yes, but it's okay, I didn't get hurt.

[PrettyPriya]

@exitseven thank goodness for that. Be more careful when ready my posts 🤣 I put a disclaimer lmao

[Still-alive]

i approve ;)

[exitseven]

Yes, you should give a warning or something.

[PrettyPriya]

@exitseven lmao I did! Look at the first two words 😂

[PrettyPriya]

@Still-alive care to make adjustments. Guys here seem to know more than us girls 🤦‍♀️

[Still-alive]

i like this warning better ;)

[PrettyPriya]

@Still-alive caught! Wet handed 🤭

[exitseven]

@prettypriya That is more like a Wet Paint sign. You just can;t resist sticking your finger in the wet paint.

[Still-alive]

uhhh my "adjustments" would be to also put a finger in the other hole too but im just freaky like that lol

[PrettyPriya]

@exitseven hahahaha. It is hard not to dip it in for just a minute 🤭

[exitseven]

@prettypriya my point exactly.

[PrettyPriya]

@Still-alive naughty!!! Clean up on aisle me 🤣

[Still-alive]

clean up with tongue? i think so!

[exitseven]

@prettypriya We need the quicker picker upper.

[PrettyPriya]

@exitseven @still-alive this thread has gone the way most do for me lol 😂

[Still-alive]

well its with better company i think though ;)

[PrettyPriya]

@Still-alive this is true 😊

[Still-alive]

will likely do this dance again with you soon hehe ;)

[PrettyPriya]

@Still-alive you know where to find me. Just look for the super long thread.

[Still-alive]

i will hehe ;) thanks for getting me wet!

[PrettyPriya]

@Still-alive oh no! Did you pee yourself? 😕

[Still-alive]

nahhh it was the other type lol

[PrettyPriya]

@Still-alive 😳

[Still-alive]

its ok it wasn't that much lol

[exitseven]

@prettypriya Okay-- thanks for this. .

[hannahjo022]

When I was 18, I would spread my legs and put my clit under the bathtub faucet til I have an orgasm. I learned how to do that from a Cosmo magazine and it actually works. I would only do it if nobody was home and tried it during shower with the showerhead. That worked for me

[gaguser30]

I think thats common for every girl in her teens or any age when she starts to pleasure herself.

[hannahjo022]

So? Then why did the asker asked this if this way is so common?

[gaguser30]

Jus waa telling lol many of the girls would say this. Not being rude to you.

[CasuallySamsonite]

R E L A X and get comfortable

Maybe consider a vibe and research some (Non-porn) guides / reading material to advise on things to try and then just see what works for you~

Medical advice on sex and sexuality is available, it does take some patience to wade through all the fake / "bad woman's advice columns / porn / mythos and outdated misogynistic ideas about female orgasms.

[RealMarek]

Have you tried curling your fingers or toy upward to press on the front wall of your vagina while you are moving them in and out? If you do this you might be able to find a sensitive spot and if you keep stimulating it and rubbing your clit at the same time you might be able to orgasm.

[RealMarek]

Thanks for MHO.

[loves2learn]

For me I either need to put a pillow between my legs (I wear undies and leggings) and hump it while watching a vid.
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Or I have an automatic thrusting dildo that works.
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I, personally, can’t climax if I am in charge of the penetration. For example I cannot climax if I am having sex in the cowgirl position.
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Hope this helps! :)

[FoghornLeghorn99]

You really have one of those machines? Ever try a Sybian?

[loves2learn]

I do have an automatic thrusting suction cup dildo with a 5 year warranty. 🤣 I do not like to be on top so the sybian is not for me. :)

[loves2learn]

Damn Foghorn Leghorn. That really takes me back. 😳 My dad loved that cartoon as a kid.

[wakeupchy]

there's 3 types i learned so far

you can get yourself a toy for those you can get a beginners dildo those are like 4-5 inches.
i am not sexually active with a partner yet i got a small toy. did a lot of reading and well experimenting. the most intense one i had was cervical with a small adult toy. even walmart sells them now or if you dont wanna get a toy etc.

for a clitoral O- get an electric toothbrush put it on your nub and go, you will know when you have one i promise you. main thing is to be relaxed and stress free, experiment with yourself, there is no shame in that and those are pretty quiet

[ChrisMaster69]

Lol 3 girls and 18 guys,

@loves2learn @prettypriya @jennbitx

one for you lot I think

[Smashingdoozy]

Just kinda fiddle around and keep doing whatever feels best. You could also just buy a small vibrator with an adjustable setting (ones without tend to be quite powerful which can be overwhelming) and try with that.

[PositiveNote]

Are you asking guys or girls? There are SO many how-to's told on the internet.

[Bronni2134]

Finger yourself and rub your Clit

[Mahalia827]

Tried it for 30 minutes once didn't work

[Bronni2134]

Then you need a guy who can do you

[shane888]

Yeaa she means me😉

[wankiam]

you need to be sexually aroused and excited rather than just going through the motions so can i ask what drives you to want to masturbate?

[Bricealan]

Well, if you are 18 and never had an orgasm... I don't know what advice you would get here. Is this a legitimate question? Are you serious?

[Mahalia827]

I'm serious. I have been trying to orgasm for 3 years to no avail

[Bricealan]

If this is a serious question, you won't get the kind of information you need on GAG. I would see a good gynecologist. (female)

[es20490446e]

Keep pressing the right button.

[Iron_Man]

Water faucet in the bathtub for you

[Mahalia827]

You mean high pressure water from the shower head?

[Iron_Man]

No the water faucet in the bathtub is better

[Yourfriend2021]

Try buying a vibrating dildo or a "womanizer" on Amazon.

[Micky26]

It's an unique experience for everyone, for some it's easy and for some it takes time... Maybe light some candles, put some calming music, really set the mood.
And just try different things, if something feels good then explore it, some like gentle but others prefer rough so just explore... And maybe a vibrator or a partner could help.

[Wise4myage]

Keep trying and try to be relaxed as possible. Find out what turns you on and makes you wet, that will really help.

[TheBigGuy9]

This has to be a fake account. No one in their right mind would be asking this question because it’s all over today. It’s on tv, the internet, hanging out with friends, sex education, etc.

[Still-alive]

use the bath faucet on your cooch and yeahhhh. fireworks

[On_cloud_wine]

That’s what my high pressure, 6 setting, hand held, shower head is for… hahaha

[Still-alive]

@On_cloud_wine hot ohh ;)

[On_cloud_wine]

Mhmmmmm

[Mahalia827]

Tried that for 10 minutes one time and it didn't cause an orgasm

[Still-alive]

Oh well

[On_cloud_wine]

Maybe you’re holding your breath.. that counteracts everything!

[Mahalia827]

@On_cloud_wine I do but it doesn't help

[Twalli]

Finger yourself and rub your clit.

[Pterodon]

Rub your clit

[Mahalia827]

I've tried that for 30 minutes at one point and nothing happened besides me getting bored

[OddBeMe]

im sure there's some porn videos that could be educational. honestly, best anatomy sources.

[Rudon00]

You have never masturbated before?

[Mahalia827]

I have just never orgasmed

[Rudon00]

Hmm!

[BigManSAB]

Master ate while you poop. That always works!