Most Helpful Guys

  • I've never had problems, but I have never been married, and fallen into that 'slump' thing that so many mention!
    I love just being with the women I am dating, and getting to know more and more about them over many months.
    We usually get into cooking together, because I love that, and I seem to meet ones that just aren't good cooks, and really want to learn!! (There goes THAT Stereotype!! LOL!!)
    I have spent a lot of times, just trying things, cooking together, and then going out, to try different foods, sometimes some unique things, 'ethnic' things (NO racism intended with the word "ethnic", OK?) then trying to duplicate those foods, or maybe take some of those flavors and spices, and put those into the things we know, and love, to change things up a bit.
    With the cooking, we share a lot of close, intimacy, in the kitchen, and then eating, and often cuddling, and watching a movie, liking things in bowls, maybe sharing.
    I can't ever remember a time I was 'bored' with any I have been with!!
    Maybe some get bored, because they just really aren't so in love with their partner or companion?

  • Look when You have been with the same woman for 17 years it becomes routine and You have to switch it up. I worked offshore and I'd spend months away from home and lying in bed before I went to sleep I'd think about sex and then I'd think about the things I wanted to try. The first time I brought a vibrator home the EX tried to get away from it because it scared Her and the minute it touched Her clit She was like wait I like that and then We started using vibrators. Then We moved onto dildos. After dildos I started using penis sleeves because I always fantasized about fucking Her with a huge cock and it was a turn on for Me and She enjoyed it also. Then We got into lingerie which is good for them because it makes them feel sexier which increases their sex drive. The thing is don't be afraid to try new things and use Your imagination because believe Me a lot of men are pretty prudish so thats a plus. I really wish though that things lasted longer because I always wanted to see if a butt plug would make Her vagina tighter.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Find new ways to spice things up, new positions, new scenery, might be a good time to try that dancing naked in the rain lololol

    • Good idea

    • Thanks

    • What if you do this with a long term partner and they still seem disinterested

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Keep trying new partners

  • If you didn't have so much sex you wouldn't be in this mess in the first place. Ha

  • Have it less often 😂
    People have wayyy too much sex early on.

    If a couple abstains for like a month and then chooses one day to get a nice hotel and just go bananas for the whole day. That's how you keep it fun

  • Probably toys or role playing

    • I was thinking a V8 engine and a washing machine

    • How about a ride along mower with a v8 motor. But year I’m sure the vibrations on that washer would be nice to sit on just like an old Harley Davidson motorcycle 😜

  • Mix it up. Doing it different places in different positions. Introducing fun things into the foreplay part

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