Guys, how do you set the mood for sex?

Not foreplay just the mood and environment.
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  • Personally I just compliment her, hug her from behind, give her soft kisses in her cheeks, forehead, her hand. Light a couple of her favorite candles, either turn the lights on low or turn on the LED lights around the room. Small things like that.

  • I get cleaned up, just a hint of cologne, lower the lights, light a few candles.
    And finally some chilled wine.
    If it’s cold I light a fire in the fireplace!

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  • Assuming its for a special occasion (birthday, Valentine, Christmas, etc)

    1) definitely a planned getaway vacation in a posh hotel. (Ya, save up...)

    2) nice lunch / dinner is definitely part of the agenda.

    3) Beach walk or laze by the pool is also a must.

    4) after we feel relax enough, then we'll enter the hotel suite. That's where a hot bath will take place.

    Foreplay begins by bathing each other.

    5) massaging, light cocktail, lighting up essential oil burner, is likely a part of the agenda.

    6) after the above, the "mood" is there. To further enhance it, we'll have some adult gossips about friends who are single but desperate; or newlyweds whom we think will also be having sex that time.

    7) the rest are "SOP" (physical touching that eventually lead to her being wet).

    Ya, the anticipation, the atmosphere, the intimacies all elevate the mood. And don't forget tea after sex. That sets the mood for another round an hour later.

  • Mood and environment? Mood (i get hard)!
    Environment ( grope her in the bus/train) as her ass wiggles against me while traveling...😂😂😈😈😉

  • I take a lady out for a nice dinner with nice conversation, some flirtation, go somewhere for a drink, invite her to my place, play some music, have another drink (if she wants it), sit next to her on the sofa, and begin with some passionate kisses.

  • This is pretty specific to my wife, but in her case, we take her weekend car out for a drive, then park for a long time with it running. It has a little engine that shakes really bad, causing the entire car to shake when its parked and running. Usually she can handle it for like 20 minutes before she can't take it anymore.

    • It used to work on a lot of girls back in highschool

  • Like how would I do it, or how you should do it?

  • I like to grab her a glass of wine get shit all comfy and start giving rubs

  • I dont anymore. Tired of all the faild attempts

  • Compliments and touching, perhaps an extravagant gift of classy lingerie. If you maKe her feel/think she is desirable you will almost always get her into the mood unless it's been a really shitty day and something has happened or she received news that upset her. Then I think its selfish to want sex before offering her compassion

  • Once you have chosen that spot be indoors or out romantically set it up candles and oil Maybe a sexy teddy some champagne or another Speak in using your words make in half indirect hints asking questions involving sexual activity there's a number of ways that this can be done

  • Kisses and words (compliments and love words)

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