How do you show a guy you’re not innocent without having sex?

I’m a virgin. And I made clear I’m not having sex any time soon.

He’s fine with that but however I can tell he’s a very horny guy. He slips things here and there. The way he says things, the way he thinks... we’re very much on the same page. He has a high libido and so do I.

i don’t want to have sex with him because I haven’t been dating him for long yet.

How do I take away the idea that I’m an innocent virgin?
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Guys, in case you're curious, I sent him a photo of me in a sexy revealing outfit and he no longer saw me as innocent lol.
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  • Just be up front with him about wanting to stay a virgin for a bit longer. He will have to accept it. Have you tried getting naked and just fooling around with fingering, handjobs etc? That might be a good ay to give each other orgasms until you are ready for sex. Your thoughts?

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  • Well unless you tease him then I he won't know, or you can surprised him in bed when it eventually happens

  • Talk about it. Tell him what turns you on. Tell him things you want to try someday. Talk about, or watch porn together. Read erotica to each other. Touch your body in a seductive way in front of him.

    • I'm happy to hear sending him a photo of you in sexy revealing outfit worked.

    • Thanks lol

  • I don't understand your question. What exactly do you want to accomplish here?

    • @itsalyssaagain What was your goal? Why does he need to not see you as innocent? How would that change things?

    • I just wanted him to think I’m sexy

    • Ohhhh. Interesting. Well, let me let you in on a little secret:. An innocent man will usually always think you're sexy. Because you're a pretty woman. You don't have to do much to impress him. So I don't think you need to worry about that.

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  • You don’t have a high libido yet since you haven’t had sex.. you are horny but, how can you have a high sex drive if you haven’t even had sex lol

    • Trust me even I’m tryna survive

    • Lol…

  • Just sext with him

  • You are though. Maybe play with his dick, either outside of his pants or inside.

  • Jerk the guy off, suck his cock every now and then. Hell, make out with one of your friends and let him jack off watching!

  • you can't

  • Suck his dick

  • Just be honest with yourself and your feelings.

  • At some point you just need to confront him and be very direct. You can say that you understand his feelings, but he needs to do a better job respecting yours. And if he doesn't then you may need to end it.

  • Sext, tell him about your fantasies. Share things that turn you on. Yes be best to not be physically in the same location for this because when your horny its so easy to throw your morals out the window.

  • Well you are really lol. But communication. Just let him know you'd like to very much, and will in time (assuming things continue to go well).

  • Send him a video of you masturbating.

  • Give him a hand job.