How do you stop the urge to want to have sex?

[Anonymous]

It’s been about three weeks.
Yes I masterbate but it doesn’t bet the real thing. Or riding a person face.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

You can't. Desiring sex is a natural human function.

[Asker]

There got to be a way to turn it off. I’m not in a relationship

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

You can't. It's like saying there's a way to turn off your body from not thirsting or getting hungry.

[Anonymous]

Cold shower and meditation

[harvest]

I don't understand... You masturbate, you sleep with a guy on a regular basis and you want sex... How about just have sex with that guy you're sleeping with?

[Asker]

We broke up. I want to call him

[harvest]

Who broke up with whom?

[Asker]

He just told me he didn’t want a relationship with me

[harvest]

Then calling him is a bad idea. He's not gonna take you back. He's not going to fuck you either. And you will feel horrible and humiliated afterwards, which will make you hate him for it. Don't go down that road... Find another boyfriend. Go outside. With an attitude of a casual hookup, you will find someone in no time. Go to first open bar with guys in it, sit in a bar in something revealing and wait. That's all.

[Asker]

He was just over here watching movies and had sex too.

[harvest]

You just broke up and he came to you to watch movies and have sex... 1. Why did you ask the question then? You had sex. Your question is invalid... 2. How did you break up exactly? You still spend time together and you still have sex...

[Asker]

We were trying to be friends, I also said it’s been three weeks. It purely my fault like now. I’m craving it.

[harvest]

I'm telling you - wear something sexy, go to some public place and wait for some guy to hit on you. Take him home and ride on his face. Problem solved.

[TheCunningLinguist]

Find a friendly face until something real comes alone. Denial is unnecessary.

[QueenofBombay]

i dont stop the urge

[Asker]

So you jus go for it

[QueenofBombay]

yeah and my husband loves it

[Asker]

I don’t have a husband though

[QueenofBombay]

oh sorry to hear that

[LiamSawyer]

You can ride my face anytime you want! I love it!

[Asker]

Lol well thanks but that no good

[LiamSawyer]

I suppose that's true as it sounds like you're in a relationship.

[Asker]

I’m not it’s been three week. He doesn’t want me.

[LiamSawyer]

Is he crazy?

[LiamSawyer]

Message me... if you want

[Asker]

Its normal he doesn’t want a relationship

[LiamSawyer]

I'd love to chat if you'd message me.

[Asker]

About what sir?

[LiamSawyer]

Message me case I'm young and not sure what you wanr. p

[Iron_Man]

You have to be strong mentally disciplined, if you sleep around every time you get horny people are gonna look down on you

[Asker]

Well I’ve only been with one person for the last couple of years. They’re really good and I missing it

[Iron_Man]

Ok,..

[AmeerX]

Find guys and get married soon

[Jamie05rhs]

If you've been with the same person for 5 years, who don't you just have sex with them?

[Asker]

We broke up. I try to stay away

[Jamie05rhs]

Ohhh. Gotcha. Well, I would definitely recommend masturbating if the urge is that strong. I know it's not the same, but it sounds like you feel like you've gotta do something. But what you absolutely do NOT want to do is just go out and start having sex with random people. And you also don't want to date people and have sex with them early simply because you're horny. It is critically necessary to control one's physical urges. If you lose control of your body, you will lose control of your life.

[Asker]

Well they said to get over someone you have get under someone else

[Jamie05rhs]

Nooo, nooo, nooo. That saying is a joke!! Not to be taken seriously. Smh

[Asker]

Oh OK cause I try but I couldn’t do it

[Asker]

I was super uncomfortable

[Jamie05rhs]

That's okay.

[Twalli]

You're lucky it's been about 2 months and she lives 20 minutes away

[Asker]

That’s hard

[Valnac]

I don’t ever stop it. Go for it.

[Asker]

But we aren’t together

[Valnac]

Then you have no choice, keep plying with yourself.

[Waldoe]

go out on a date

[Asker]

No one like me

[Waldoe]

I am sorry, I will love to be your friend

[CJBLUE4U]

Masturbate more~

[msc545]

Just fuck someone. Anyone really.

[Asker]

Can’t do that.

[msc545]

why not?

[Asker]

I’m not a whore.

[msc545]

Well, then fuck someone you like.

[Bklynbadboy12]

So get the real thing or ride some ones face

[Asker]

I can’t just have sex anyone.

[Bklynbadboy12]

But I'm not asking you to have sex with anyone. Just make yourself available to meet new people and let it go from there under. Like for instance you anonymous what of a guy read this now and wanted to meet you here couldnt cause your on anonymous

[Asker]

I’m trying but it hard. I couldn’t on here. Think about it a would see and think I’m easy. No because I’m not a whore

[Bklynbadboy12]

Guy know your not easy if you was you wouldn't need to post this question so trust me they know. Right?

[Asker]

I’m not sure about the people on here

[Bklynbadboy12]

In box me I want to chat with you a sec

[Asker]

About what sir

[Bklynbadboy12]

Nothing like your thinking

[Thedarklight]

you have a high sex drive I'm like that too always crave more

[lonlynchi5]

shame on you

[Asker]

For what sir. Being honest

[Anonymous]

well be glad that as a woman, you don't have to put in effort to have sex or get a date, for obvious reasons

[Asker]

Oh but you do if you I’m wanted

[Anonymous]

I can help you.
Just invite me to your house 😉