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  • Look, guys for the most part (including myself) are as dumb as bricks whfnbit comes to hints and your beating around the bush tactics. I have 2 suggestions.

    This 1st one is waaay out there, here it goes. You say,"would you like to have sex (insert time window like now, in 30 minutes, tonight, etc)" - crazy, I know.

    The 2nd one is more graphical in case he's a bad reader. Send him a picture of your lower half nude (spread eagle, bent over, doesn't matter) And say something to the effect of ,"wanna join me" or " I want you inside me right now"

    Those are the 2 most basic ways guys can understand that you would like him to take you to pound town. Like see, if you said what I just wrote, he'd be like, "pound town? where's that? Over on the other side of the college or where?"

    So you gotta be straight up with us. There's nothing wrong with a woman initiating sex. I wish you would do it more often. And most of the time, it's not a matter of "will you", but rather "when can you"

    Make sure you're participating as well. Get vocal, tell him what you like, what doesn't work or do anything for you. It's ok. If he gets offended, boo hoo ya big cry baby, then maybe you need to kick that boy back to his mama and get a real man.

    A real man pays attention during foreplay and lovemaking. He's there in the moment. Like when I'm with a lady, she's the only thing that is important in the world at that time. Cuz every woman is different, I would like her to tell me what works or doesn't so I can stop doing the shit that does nothing for her except for probably start to annoy her and that's a step in the wrong direction. You wanna focus on the positives & cut the negatives. Sorry for the rant, I digress...

Most Helpful Guy

  • Just be really straight-forward. Most guys on Tinder are looking for hook-ups anyway. Say something like: Do you have a place? Or I have a place. Want to do it X day at X time? I never had a Tinder hook-up, but I'm sure that would work. It'd be really hot if a girl were straight to the point for a change

Most Helpful Girls

  • Is Temder in itself not a place intended for that purpose?

    The fact alone you are on a sexual/dating platform is to have sex ultimately. So why make it such a secret, since both of you are members for that very specific purpose.

    Just say "I want to copulate with you. Give me the date and place and don't forget your rubbers".

    That should take care of business

  • It’s Tinder. Hooking up is kind of implied, so just be direct about what you want. So many guys on there are looking for the same thing and appreciate you not being coy about it. If you’re too shy to be that direct, you can always give a strong hint, like tell him you’ll make the date totally worth his while.

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  • "Wanna hook up?"
    That's literally all it will take.

    Then ask him about STDs. That will let him know you're serious and you're not taking chances. (He may lie anyway, but point is, you're not going to be reckless. Right?)

  • Start with sexual innuendo. From there it will be easy.

    How do you tell a guy on Tinder you want to have sex?
  • you can ask whatever you want... if your shy or ashame just ask him if he likes blowjobs which is a good way to start off things sexually... i think that's something you can live up to even if he isn't what his picture looks like... because you will have to do what you say your going to do... so be careful about that...1/2 don't look like their picture

  • I would ask if he is interested in friends with benefits

  • Just tell him. Hey Joe, you wanna give it a go? Believe it or not, but that little line works.

  • read your bible and ask God

    • LOOL. Straight up.

  • Tell him you want to get cozy with him and feel like a woman with a man and make him feel good the way a man wants a woman to make him feel good. 😃

  • You send a message saying "Richard I'd love to meet up and have sex with you"

    But it only works if your messaging Richard in Hucknall Nottingham!
    😂

  • You say, 'lets hook up!"

  • Simple, say when are we gonna hook up. Since it's tinder I think the sex is pretty much implied 🤷‍♀️

  • Take your clothes off.

    • since most "dating apps and sites" are really just used.
    • for hookups or to promote yourself on other platforms.
    • just be straight forward with him.
  • You say let's hookup

  • Just be straight up front. It's known for hook ups, you won't shock him

  • You just come out and tell them. Its Tinder.

  • by TELLING him you want to have sex, unless you or him are from another planet that express your desires to have sex differently

  • I heard men are simple, just tell em

  • As I know most of guys on tinder wants to have sex You just have to go on a date so you also know him and wear something sexy outfit and he'll ask you for sex. Or maybe you can start talking on some dirty topics it'll end with sex.

  • By asking do you want to have sex I do

  • Simple... fancy a fuck? Being direct is always good.

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