Guys, How do you tell a guy that you have a foot fetish?

Question

I’m a 20 yo female, and I’ve been friends with benefits for a guy for a while now. We tickle each other sometimes and his feet are so cute! I want to tickle them, lick them, massage them, and I wish he could do the same to mine. I really want to tell him about it so he’ll tease me playfully and hopefully be into it, but I’m scared he’ll react to it badly and not want to talk to me. Is there any way I can test if he has one too before telling him or should I just tell him?

_DARKNESS_ · Accepted Answer

If you wanna make it look more natural, if he happens to talk about sex and kinks, you admitting to your foot fetish would look more natural, since kinks are already the topic. Or you could initiate and change the convo to that topic. In the end, you just gotta tell him. I’m sure most people won’t mind (you’ll be surprised how common foot fetish and foot play is). And if he doesn’t like it, we’ll then, he’s not the one for you, because a boyfriend should be understanding of their partner

actually, there’s a great discord server for people with foot fetishes, where people in the same situation as you are wondering what to do. I’d know so myself, as I am a foot enthusiast like you hehe

all the best! If you wanna talk more, feel free to give me a follow, no pressure tho

Massageman · Accepted Answer

Let's se - - - - - -hmmmmmm- - - - - - -

Next time you have a shake (or anything with a straw) for dinner in bed, offer him the straw and teasingly say "have a suck". Then offer him your breast and more seriously say, "have a - - - - suck". Finally , offer him your toe and -very seductively- moan "Now- have a REAL suck - - - - - - - baby".
If that doesn't do it, he must be an android.

Lov2PlezUgurl · Answer

just do it tell him NOW don't wait time is not on our side you have to do what you want to do and I believe he will be SOOO glad you did because I'm sure he would do anything you asked of him gladly so what are you waiting for DO IT GIRL go... now

abc3643 · Answer

Just do it. After a while, he will ask.
I suspect he will not have a problem with you with his feet.
He might with your feet.
I have no problem worshiping women's feet.
My wife likes it when I massage her, but she doesn't like me doing anything oral with them.

Kaneki05 · Answer

Well like any fetish just gotta say it and see if the other person likes it too. And well if he don't like it don't really change much to how is with you right now anyway. So things would just stay the same. So it either gets more fun, or stay's the same not really a bad outcome for saying.

Dargil · Answer

Do you shower or bathe with him?

Browneye57 · Answer

Quit doing this. There is absolutely no benefit in it for the girl. Zero. Zilch. Nada. Nothing.
You're just a warm place to put it.
Find a worthy man and develop a meaningful relationship. The sex will be ten times better and you can have all the fetishes your little heart desires.

Wise4myage · Answer

No need to tell or ask him. Take a bath together so you know they are nice and clean, and then just go for it and see how he responds.

Sreenivasa_1998 · Answer

Just tell him  Dont feel bad after he laughs  Say it in Sexualway not as a joke

venomhbk1313 · Answer

It shouldn't be that hard myself I have a foot and leg fetish myself and I don't mind a woman who would let me worship her feet whether they are bare in socks or in pantyhose just come out and tell him