How do you turn down your desire for sex?

Question

Especially the physical reactions, erections/getting wet?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Cold showers. Especially when I was first dating my husband. I wanted to wait until marraige before having sex for the first time so to keep him intrested and stop him from straying and to show thar I loved him and cared I did other things sexually to satisfy him. Stuff like handjobs. Started with handjobs but my arms got tired and found blowjobs are much easier and faster. Letting him jerk off over my boobs or butt, a favouriteof his was to have me stick my bare boobs on his face so he could suck my nipples while playing with himself. Dry humping, turns out there's a lot of different ways to dry hump. You can do ithrough clothes but we progressed to the point where I would get naked except for a thong and maybe stocking and I would maybe grind my butt up against his penis until he came, or I could get on top and grind my pussy up against his dick. We did anal as well, I didn't like it too much, very sore especially when he gets going. A gay male friend suggested thighjobs, apparently gay men do this a lot. So he puts his penis between my thighs and starts thrusting until he comes and you can do this in nearly any position, facing each other, from behind, standing, missionary.

Anyway this constant foreplay and sexual contact with no sex for me left me soaking wet. Like I was having wet dreams about him and my underwear was always soaking. Cold showers in the morning and evening helped and exercise.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Accepted Answer

I do avoid seductions especially when I am ovulating, but It’s not that easy, because sometimes I can’t sleep for whole night during ovulation. Because I feel too excited to sleep.

Bricealan · Accepted Answer

I don't know that you can! Some people (men and women alike) try to do some diversionary, activities, to take the 'edge" off, but I don't know how effective that is. Sex is probably the most innate, instinct we have, and I dont' know if that can be 'dialed down"

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Have a woman leave you , then divorce you, you find out that she was cheating on you. Then you get older and broke and women don't find you as attractive anymore. This should turn down the desire for sex.