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How do you view this situation - engaging in sexual activity and then suddenly your partner (male or female) says stop but you continue... is it rape?

The definition of rape is engaging in sexual activity where one partner DOES NOT consent or is UNABLE to consent.

Or does being in the midst of having sex remove partner's right to say "stop" or "no more"?

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And if you think that yes a partner has no right to say "stop" if engaging in sex.

What if you are hurting them, maybe even badly, are they just to lie there & "take it"?

What if they are having some sort of health-related problem, are they to shut up & suffer? What if it's a heart issue, are they to just die for your pleasure?

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  • being in the midst of having sex remove partner's right to say "stop" or "no more
    but if he/she have a health problem or it hurts her and unenjoyable for her..
    so i, ll be totally for her i have to take care of her... if she have a real reason which requires me to stop i will stop immediately...

    • thanks for the mho

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  • It is rape. The problem is that most people think that if they already agreed then they can't withdraw consent. The fact is you can withdraw consent at any time during sex. You can't withdraw consent retroactively, so you can't have sex and regret it so decide that it was rape because you decided later you didn't really want it.

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  • Yes.

  • No means no and stop means stop

  • No means no stop means stop at that point consent is withdrawn.
    And if your in a situation where verbal communication is not possible then some other way of indicating you want to stop should be worked out ahead of time!

  • I think it is rape.

  • Back in the day, no meant yes, and stop meant keep going. If we were naked and I was inside, there wasn't any stopping but times have changed, she says stop, I tell her to get dressed and don't let the door hit her on the way out.

    • I said I would stop, why the personal attack?

    • Because you are trash for saying that a woman asking you to stop should be out the door. Trash

    • ok you viewed the comment as trashy, ok got it.. Since the metoo thingy guys stop now lol

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  • How does the timing of the word "stop" change the withdrawal of consent?

    • If you ask some people on GAG they will tell you "heat of the moment", etc means that stop & withdrawal of consent doesn't exist.

    • LOL Well, "some people on GAG" don't know what the fuck they're talking about, as usual. What if "in the heat of the moment" of having some rough sex, you break you dislocate your shoulder when thrown against the wall and scream out in pain "stop!!" He says " I'm just about to cum, hang on!" Sorry buddy, you pull out and you stop. Even if you weren't injured and you just didn't like where it was going, "stop means stop".

  • Yes. If they told me to stop, I'd stop.

  • Stop means STOP!

  • From a legal standpoint there are different jurisdictions that consider that rape or not. Some states do consider that rape and others don’t.

    I know there was a girl I hooked up with years ago who started moaning “stop” when I was fingering her. I of course stopped. She then asked me why I stopped and responded with “because you said stop“. She responded with “oh I sometimes say stop when I am about to cum”. Lots of question marks in her communication here? Just saying

    So in the post metoo world we live in you can see my predicament there. I knew she wanted me to keep going but I have to cover my ass out of paranoia. I guess that makes me more “boring” and less fun in bed at times. But men have put in this insane position now.

    Some feminists have gone as insanely far as calling regret “rape” now. You can consensually have sex with a girl and she can regret it later to just turn around and call it rape. That’s horrifying.

  • By the legal definition, that is definitely rape.

    But unless there is a really, really good reason to do it, a woman willingly having sex with a man and then telling him to stop halfway through is cruel.

    • Most women won't do that. The most typical cause of a "stop" is going to be pain, not to play games.

    • I agree, but I can tell you from personal experience that some women do it out of spite or just to exert their power over a man.

    • That's unfortunate but then more and more women in the west I've found are just fickle b*tches with low to no morals. As I said most women would be saying stop due to pain.

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