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How does he feel about me?

I am seeing this guy for a short period of time. We haven't talked what are we doing but sex is amazing and nobody has ever made me cum hard as he does. He stares deep in my eyes and kisses me on the cheek after sex. He told me that I am an amazing woman and that he loves my pussy and everything about me. We haven't talked what are we doing, just enjoying the moments with him. I also sleep with other guys but recently started to back off from having sex with anyone else cause they don't make me feel like this guy. I don't know if he sleeps with other girls as well cause we haven't talked about exclusivity or dating each other. Do you think I shall give up sleeping with other people or is it too soon to settle with him? And what if he doesn't actually feel the same? I kind of sense that he does.
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And should I let him lead? So far he's been initiating dates almost every two days but we don't text in-between so I really don't know what's going on. He asked to see me again when we were together in the following days but haven't texted me yet (usually he'll be like hey babe let's go out tonight).
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  • When you feel the time is right then try to have an honest open discussion about whether you both feel you should become monogamous with each other. Giving up sleeping with other people will allow your relationship to develop stronger so long as you both have similar morals. An open relationship can also be a healthy one depending on the level of commitment both are willing to partake in.
    Hope this helps!

    • We kind of discussed that in abstract terms and he told me he'll get hurt to find out that the girl he's seeing or his girlfriend is fucking with other people. He hasn't asked me directly about that but I dropped the discussion cause we had a disagreement on that part. And the fact that he's leaving and he doesn't knows if he's staying will break my heart eventually and I am fucking scared to experience all this emotions. Tomorrow I'm supposed to meet with a guy but I am thinking to cancel it cause last night this guy gave me my best orgasm and I really believe it's because I like him a lot it's not just sexual for me.

    • If you are considering being with one mate, then maybe it's best not to continue sleeping around. That might cause you to further complicate your emotions and damage the chance of continuing to bond with the person of interest.

    • Yeah this is true. But what if he doesn't want to be monogamous? Then I'll find myself in the loop attached to him and so I found this a defence mechanism to not get attached unless I'm sure we are on the same page. We haven't had a discussion yet about what we are doing. One night he told me he had plans and we'll see each other the following days but texted me the next day to meet. He wants us to do something fun everytime so we don't get bored. I'm feeling like I can't sleep with other guys at the moment but at the same time thinking if this is a mistake (investing only in him emotionally and physically).

Most Helpful Guy

  • The smart thing to do would be to not have sex with anyone, including the man you’re interested in, until you have the discussion about exclusivity and monogamy. That way, if he is willing to commit to you, you won’t mess it up or feel bad by sleeping with other guys; if he’s not willing to give you the commitment you desire, you will have clarity without becoming more attached.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Personally if you are planning on dating him, then you should stop sleeping with multiple people. Men do not like to hear that you are sleeping with other people while dealing with them and this guy will never ever take you seriously if you are playing to be promiscuous. You need to concentrate on this one guy. Is he taking you out on dates? Or is he only sleeping with you?

    • No we are going on dates and he always initiates them asking me out. I haven't told him that I'm sleeping around and he didn't ask me.

    • No one said to talk about it, but word gets around and he may just find out that you are sleeping around and that will tarnish any chances with him. So in my opinion, stop sleeping with other people. It’s really not worth it. You need to put focus on the not him. I’ve slept around before and honestly, it didn’t do much for me in the end and it was nearly impossible focusing on any of their interests

    • You need to put focus on only him*

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  • Start hinting at maybe moving towards a relationship and see how he reacts to it.

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