How does one get over a fetish?

I have a really weird fetish i dont want to have anymore, any suggestions?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I don't think you can, it's a fetish, no one ever claimed a fetish is rational.

    Foot fetish people love feet, can you explain why anyone would love feet that much? Probably not but who cares, they like feet and as long as their partner doesn't mind giving foot jobs and having their toes sucked it's not a problem.

    Some people like to pretend their partner is much older or younger through role play, again seems weird to me but if they both are cool with it, it's a non issue.

    I kind of want to try some pee play, I can't think of a single rational reason the idea of peeing on or in a woman would excite me but it does, at some point, when we get that far in our relationship maybe I'll joking ask to pee on her while we are both in the shower.
    So even mine is cross to a lot of people I'm sure but really who cares, I only need one person to be cool with it and worst case I can live without fofilling my fetish.

    As long as it doesn't permanently harm anyone and you and your partner like it it's fine, just have fun.

    So what is your fetish my guy?

  • Would you be willing to say which fetish it is? I have a fetish and was ashamed of it for a long time but I've learned to embrace it and not be embarrassed about it.

    • Its a giantess fetish. Its really freaking weird

    • I've heard of that kind before. I don't personally understand it much and yeah it might be a little strange I guess but aren't all fetishes a little odd? I have a foot fetish and tons of people think that is weird.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I guess you have to either just ignore it and hope it goes away or accept that if it's not harming anyone there's no real problem and you can just enjoy it 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • Thats true,

  • Maybe you would enjoy being submissive.

    • I mean in a sense

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  • One doesn't usually. We just control our reaction.

  • By taking your mind off of it then eventually goes away

  • You just have to put it in the back of your mind and don't think about it. You don't ever forget you have it, you just have to ignore it.

  • Find something to balance it out.

  • Depends what it is. If you enjoy it why not continue with it? If it brings you pleasure and no one comes to any harm just accept it. I developed a fetish for women's hosiery when I was a teenager and I've tried to give it up many times but I kept coming back to it so now I just accept it's part of me.

  • Well dont entertain the thoughts. Think of other things. Watch a movie or listen to music. Keep your mind busy.

  • Think of something else.

  • I wish it was that simple my friend. I think therapist can help. I have fetishes of my own and I find them extremely difficult to shake off. I haven't tried professional help though.

    • For above reason specifically.

  • Not sure is it that bad. I have one but I don’t mind it. It doesn’t take over my mind and make me act crazy lol