How does sex get better once you fall in love with them? Are hookups okay in the beginning?

[poneglyphs]

Just wondering 🤔

[RobT312]

Hookups satisfy a need and they are ok. They can be fun when you at least have a connection with the person. But when you are in love it’s more intimate and special and the bond is real. You feel like you know the person so well.

[poneglyphs]

Oh, so sex gets better because of the intimacy

[RobT312]

I’m sure there are other reasons too, but that’s one of them and it has happened that way for me …the intimacy is so much stronger with someone u love

[poneglyphs]

Cool, and thanks 😊

[SnowedIn]

You're connected. If you have a relationship that's settled, there's no longer the worry of "messing up" and you relax. Sex is better when you're relaxed.

[katiesmuff]

Yes it does! A lot better and the only hook up had better be with the one you are in love with.

[Anonymous]

Hookups are fun for awhile, but I'd rather just have some reliable fuck buddies.

[poneglyphs]

Wish I had some fwbs

[Opinion Owner]

I think being a member of a poly tribe would be ideal for everyone.

[poneglyphs]

Yeah would be if I met girls. I know that dating is a shitshow right now

[Opinion Owner]

Are you talking about Covid?

[poneglyphs]

Nope just dating in general. Its hard to date right now as a guy

[Opinion Owner]

Would you be down with playing with couples?

[poneglyphs]

I'm not sure honestly I never had a girlfriend before so

[Opinion Owner]

If you're just looking for sex, you might want to go on a site and look for couples. I have a couple of guy friends that do that. And if you win over the husband, and he likes and trusts you, there's a good chance the husband will give you permission to "date" his wife whenever you want, and without him being there.

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for the MHO

[NathanDavis]

decide for yourself...

make your own choices

and respond for them, find others alike... then decide with them

[Molly1997]

I’ve never had a hookup , just one partner, we love each other and sex is always amazing and my favourite thing

[exitseven]

I had a hookup once and it was not very good. Maybe it was because it was my first time but There was no reall connection with her.

[Wise4myage]

Sex becomes more intimate when two people fall in love. Hookups shouldn't happen too soon in my opinion.

[poneglyphs]

Oh, so do you feel more connected to them than if it was just a random person you met of the street?

[Wise4myage]

Yes, definitely.

[Razzmatazz091]

Well for me the first like 10 times I'm so excited I only last like 5 min or less so it's after a bit it gets better.

[poneglyphs]

5 minutes that seems kinda low. Oh well.

[Razzmatazz091]

Sometimes it's less. But it doesn't help if they're telling me to cum inside of them in the first minute.

[In_Trance]

Bruh...

[poneglyphs]

What dude

[Anonymous]

Sex does not get better for guys after we “fall in love”… The first thing a female does when she has you emotionally invested is pull sex out of the equation and only gives it as a reward or special treat when SHE wants it.

[Anonymous]

Bad sex usually stays bad.

[poneglyphs]

What is bad sex for you?