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How far would you consider a handjob to be, on a scale from 0-sex?

If you wouldn't have sex on a first date, would you give a handjob? where is it on the baseball scale - first base, second base, third base, or homerun? Have you ever given a pity handjob, or a handjob to someone whom you weren't necessarily all that into? When you give a handjob, do you expect or would you like to receive something in return?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I wouldn't give a hj on the first date, I mean that always leads to something more so if Im gonna give a hj I might as well just have full on sex, for me a hj is probably second base, first base being kissing, third oral, and homerun sex, and I have given hjs to people I wasn't necessarily into, but not because of pity, more because of horniness, and yeah everytime I give a hj I expect more, from the both of us xD

    • Did you took the initiative to give a handjob to your guy that day, just because you were in mood? :D

  • I'd give a handjob on the first date if i knew him for at least a week.

    • so not that big of a deal? afterwards, would you want something in return, like fingering?

    • I like your style girl

    • no and handjob would be it.

  • no
    second base
    nope
    possibly but not necessarily

Most Helpful Guys

  • I think wet intimacy should wait a few dates. Uncovered hand and oral.
    An uncovered hand job shares third with oral.
    I've been given "placeholder" handjobs when she wasn't really up for intimacy.
    An enthusiastic 2-hand handjob? 7.5. Baseline sex: 9 An enthusiastic handjob with anal fingering? 13
    I do what I do because I want to. No compensation needed.

  • A more interesting question to me would be if men and women see hand job/fingering to orgasm as different degrees of sexual intimacy.

    My impression is most guys would see it as lower than girls. Any time you give a girl an orgasm that seems to be a big thing for them.

    • I agree, that is interesting. fingering more of a big deal usually

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • About a 4.

  • It's after boob fondling but before a blowjob.

    • I rated it the same lol

  • 1. Do I know you sir?
    2. Noncommittal side hug/cheek kiss/handshake
    3. Full frontal hug
    4. Just kissing
    5. Making out
    6. Dry humping/fondling
    7. Hand job/fingering
    8. Blowjob/cunnulingis
    9. Sex
    10. Kinky sex

  • I'd let him give me a creampie on the first date lol I'm sterile so itd be fun

  • i'd give a handjob to someone iv known a long time if im not in a relationship but i am so only my boyfriend gets them from me.

  • Hand jobs are right before sex.

  • Handjob is ok if i know him well and know that i won't be in trouble later on

  • Don't be stingy ladies

  • I would only do that to someone I'm in a long term serious and loving relationship with.

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