How Girl`s body Changes Before and After Marriage.

How Girl`s body Changes Before and After Marriage.

How Girl`s body Changes When She Starts Having Pleasant Penetrative Sex – Particularly After Marriage.

Psychological, emotional and physical changes are always associated with each and every stage of human life. When a girl was an adolescent, her body, just as every woman’s body at that age, went through huge physical changes like a development of breasts, pubic hairs, menstrual cycle and hormonal changes linked with various psychological changes. When she becomes a married woman - wife of her man, she goes through many new changes. Her body and mind are again going through various changes regarding physical health, mental health, sex life, overall well-being and lifestyle. Surprisingly moments are so pleasant that she does not pay any attention to these changes.

During Puberty Changes
During Puberty Changes

As you step into a new life after marriage, there will be many things going on in your mind. Many of physical body changes after marriage are closely related to pleasure of sex. Engaging in physical intimacy leads to some changes in hormones, which can affect your body. Unless you become pregnant, your period cycle will not be affected; however, you may experience a slight delay or early for a month or two, brought on by the stress of your first time sex and pleasure feelings of love and intimacy. Sex is more than just amazing pleasure moments. If you have done it, you know it, and if you are going to have it, you are in the process for a great surprise. Great sex comes with plenty of other good things. Female body and mind start changing as soon as she starts feeling something special about someone special in her life. When she is dating, she is literally living two separate lifestyles.

Love Love Love Everywhere
Love Love Love Everywhere

After marriage she has wonderful transformation from a girl to wife, socially responsible woman and within few years as a mother and many more. But first time sex and regular satisfying sex after marriage has some wonderful things. When she is married, her lifestyle is drastically changed because now they are two of them living together—united for better pleasant life, she is automatically more casual, more sporty emotionally and physically with her husband. Soon after marriage, every morning she wake up in the morning and she pinches herself to make sure that pleasant moments of night were not a dream. Everything she enjoyed was real and official! She has enjoyed it as a privilege of wife of a man – her husband. What really happens after marriage is the ultimate change of both her mental and physical state. Everything you do physically with your husband has some impact or the other on your body, and sex is special one. It is not only an extensive workout, apart from the racing heart, secretion of happy hormones and bodily fluids and the feeling of a burgeoning desire being fulfilled; there are many more things that change when you start having pleasant sex.

Initiating and Expressing Sexual Desire
Initiating and Expressing Sexual Desire

Initiation of sexual activity starts with foreplay; you will hold his organ in your hand, massage it and kiss it with plenty of love in your heart and eyes. He will play with your boobs, hold them and kiss them, lick them and do some naughty things with them. All these things will be causing floods of pleasure and surprise for both. Naturally first visible impacts will be on your boobs and his organ. For example your breasts will become firmer and larger. After you enjoy sex for the first time, both your southern and northern parts might hurt a little. But it is usually pleasant feelings. You will start noticing a visible change in your breast size and its firmness. You and your partner have played many naughty games to thank for it. However, breast size keeps fluctuating through seasons and according to age. You may need new bras soon. Your nipples will become more sensitive. Your nipples are an essential part of the many erogenous zones in your body; in fact, they are as exciting as your vagina. After sex, like every other part of your body, your nipples tingle more than usual. One gentle kiss of your husband on them and brushing touch is all it takes to get you excited for one more round of pleasure.

Happy Hormones are in abundance during entire process of lovemaking - before, during and after sex. Sex releases all your happy hormones – serotonins, endorphins and oxytocin. All these hormones are released in our bodies before, during and after sex. They flood to our brains, make us feel light, stress-free, comfortable and kind of special love with yourselves.

Your vagina learns to expand and contract, including your clitoris and uterus. Before having sex, your organs down south were pretty inactive and inexperienced. But after it, they do learn some tricks of their own. Before and during sex, your clitoris swells up and your uterus rises in response to your pleasure and your partner. And it learns to do this every time you are aroused thinking of him and during intercourse.

Your vaginal elasticity changes as well. By elasticity, we do not mean that more sex = looser vagina. It just means that before, during and after your penetrative sexual activity, your vagina learns a neat trick of letting ‘it’ in. So all your old wives and believes that more sex make vagina looser in correspondence to the number of sex rounds with your husband has nothing to do with it at all. In fact, there are only two things that can make your vagina ‘looser’, - ‘temporarily looser’ during natural childbirth and ‘non-reversible looser’ because of OLD age.

The way your vagina lubricates changes too. Before you feel strong emotional things for someone or enjoy sex, your vagina was lubricating in stealth mode only to keep itself healthy and you barely even noticed it happening. But after having sex, you will notice it every time. One dirty (lovely) thought, no matter where you are, you will have your juices flowing with sweet feelings any moment. However, this lubrication will change depending on other factors such as menstrual cycle, overall health, your diet, his skills and tricks to penetrate you and many more.

Your body may starts retaining more water or gaining weight. This does not happen with everyone, so blaming sex for suddenly putting on a few pounds is not fair. Some women do experience a significant weight gain after starting their active sex life. Your happy hormones have a lot to do with it, along with many more factors. Swings in hormones level also bring some terrible mood swings. (To the men reading this article, if your girl cries after sex or is moody, be nice to her.) Because sex can open reservoirs of intense emotions and it is perfectly all right to feel emotional and even cry out loud if she want to.

Once you have become sexually active, your body can feel sexually excited any moment even without thinking consciously of ‘HIM’ doing something with you. During this time, you may experience a feeling of ‘being wet’, as the vaginal walls stretch and self-lubricate to help make intercourse easier. You may experience some vaginal discharge during the day as well, and this is normal. A panty liner helps absorb the moisture and keeps you feeling fresh and clean. Keeping the vaginal area clean is very important at this time. This not only keeps you feeling fresh, but is also important for avoiding fungal infections and growth of bacteria. Wash your intimate areas (with a sensitive intimate wash – if possible), using your hands, to keep it clean. Wash only from the outside – the vaginal discharge is what keeps the vagina healthy and clean from the inside. Choose a panty liner that suits your needs best, based on your quantity of discharge. There is a wide range to choose from, and you can even keep a couple of varieties for different days. Keep in mind that if the discharge is accompanied by pain or irritation, or changes in color and odor, then you may need to consult a doctor.

Your skin may become rosy and glowing, especially just because of pleasant sexual activities. This sensation usually never subsides and your body will never go back to normal even after any number of years of ultimate pleasure. One reason is – birth control pills. It is common practice to start birth control pills as soon as girl starts active sexual activities, it gives them great protection against undesired pregnancy to enjoy sexual activities at its full.

Birth control pills are hormones and they are of two type. They are safe, affordable, and effective if you always take your pill on time to prevent undesired pregnancy and enjoy sexual pleasure without any limitations. Combination pills have both estrogen and progestin and these are the most common type of birth control pill. Second type is Progestin-only pills. Estrogen is known to improve skin health, shine and strangeness of hair and overall tone of body. It also has other benefits like reducing acne, making your periods lighter and more regular, reduce menstrual cramps, lighten periods, and lower risk of ectopic pregnancy.

Condoms help in preventing pregnancy and protection against STDs, but kills ultimate pleasure of direct contact of organs and sensations they convey to each other. Most important thing condoms prevent you getting is high dose of hormone Progesterone from your husband`s lovejuice in each encounters to make you confident and happy. They also prevent exchange of happy hormones between the partners and they may feel something missing in ultimate pleasure.

The combination pill can also help prevent or lessen: bone thinning, cysts in breasts and ovaries, endometrial and ovarian cancers, serious infections in your ovaries, fallopian tubes, and uterus, iron deficiency (anemia), PMS (premenstrual syndrome).

All Options Are Easily Available - My Choice is Pill
All Options Are Easily Available - My Choice is Pill

You feel less stressed, and the most important reason is that your love becomes more deep, passionate, and uplifting which has a positive effect on your overall well-being. Intense love of husband who loves you to the moon and back (and vice versa) protects you against stress, thanks to love hormones - happy hormones serotonin, oxytocin, and endorphins.

Your life as his girlfriend and a carefree woman ends after marriage. Every life period has its own beautiful changes, advantages, and its own unique sense and your husband is the game changer. You are more worried about your husband’s well-being than your own, and you become the most reliable person not only to him, but also to his family and close friends as well.

You may start living a healthier lifestyle. When you are married, things change drastically. You will employ all healthy lifestyles to keep your man healthy, happy and loving, because you feel responsible for your partner’s and your children’s health. Your decision-making style will drastically change because before marriage, there was only “I”, but now it is “We”. You become more patient because you have so many things to think about, and it is really easy to lose your mind in a second. You learn that freaking out constantly will not solve anything, and over time, you simply learn to be more patient in every situation.

Your dressing style is more casual when you are married, and you probably will not even notice it. You no longer give a damn about extra layers of mascara, and you do not care if you go in your pajamas to the city because you need not to impress someone. Your husband has seen you in thousands of different outfits in past, and he has no problem with you wearing only casual items during the day (because you both need not to wear anything in the nights). To you, there is not a better feeling in the world than being curled up with your husband under the blanket, and the only thing you can think of is that one word: Finally! Sex in marriage is one the most fulfilling and beautiful things because of a married couple’s powerful connection. And the more you practice it, the stronger the bond will be!

So, when you have tied the knot, you have subconsciously welcomed future female body changes and female mind changes after marriage! These changes happen to every woman and man out there almost equally, and they are basic in their family life as husband and wife, they are all be classified as perks of being married!

Even after countless years of having sex, your body does and will continue to change shape and size. But they are all good signs that you are leading a pretty decent, healthy and ‘sexy’ life. So sit back, relax and enjoy your moments and all the wonders that your body can do.

Happy Mornings - Happy Evenings and Nights
Happy Mornings - Happy Evenings and Nights

Marriage is about becoming a team. You are going to spend the rest of your life learning about each other, and every now and then, things blow up. But the beauty of marriage is that if you both love each other, and you both will always figure out a way to get through blissfully surprises of life.

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Most Helpful Guys

  • As an American man it is very refreshing to see a woman with such positive attitudes about her husband and marriage. It's nice to see you talk openly about such feelings instead of being guarded, cynical and negative toward men and husbands like most American women are today.

    Are there a lot of women like you in India? Are there many Indian women who are happy in their marriages? I know the divorce rate there is very low, and I'm sure there are multiple reasons for that, but I want to believe it has a lot to do with good women like you. Here in America half of marriages end in divorce and women initiate 80% of those divorces. That means a man going into a marriage knows the chances of his wife divorcing him are 4 in 10. Women are terrible here and have all but ruined the institution of marriage. It's nice to know there are places in the world where there are still good women who value men and marriage and still take commitment seriously.

    Sorry for the tangent. Thank you for this excellent MyTake.

  • I’m wondering about a girl having “penetrative sex” before marriage? Does this still apply?

    • There are many communities and cultures round the world where girls enjoy all forms of sex before marriage and in many case even before getting enough matured - during puberty.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I remember changing from a girl to a woman and then being with one man for a long time kinda like being married. I had to do everything that he told me. I was being used as his sex toy for his pleasure. When he was tired of me I had to work as a prostitute to make money for him. I would like to know what it’s like to be without him and his influence over me.

  • What I have noticed is that girls usually gain weight, especially after having a baby. Sometimes you wonder why get married then. Hey, maybe that is the reason girls shack up instead of getting married.

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  • Insightful, thanks

  • Thank you for a positive myTake.

  • As I read this I almost fainted.

  • Nice article.

  • Nice Mytake

  • Very well researched and written.

  • Wait, women grow pubic hair? I've never seen any on a woman so I assumed they didn't grow any.

    Just kidding, this was really, really good. You sound like one of the good ones. Your husband is a lucky man.