How good is friendship when sexual desire is there?

last night, we were out for the evening and a friend of my husband asked me to dance, when we were in the middle of the dance floor, his hands and fingers were moving to as much of my body that was available to him, how often has this arisen with you, and lads, have you been in this your selves

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I know loyalty is sparse when sexual desire is close, example, my husband and I have a sort of open marriage, one rule no threesomes with friends, but you see I told him that I fancied a friend of ours, so my husband one night pretended to be drunk and asleep, and sure enough the friend saw his opportunity and we had sex right there on the settee,
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  • I have had very few friends that had and expressed their sexual desire towards me even though they know know the wife veey well. I told them i can't and i appreciate their brutal honesty but unfortunately i did not have the same feelings to share with them. I kept distance and we meet every now and then and still feel awkward for some reason. So the friendship is not there anymore like it used to.

    • I can understand that, but now be honest, lets say you had the hots for one of them would you maybe liked it

    • No 🤷‍♂️ i know! I am an idiot, all these years i have been with one woman. Would i like some other woman's attention? Not really, it make me feel awkward and uncomfortable

    • yes I can understand that, there are both men and women whom I feel would like to have the chance but would they take it,

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  • makes it interesting for sure

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  • It is used to be good because if you are friends you have a chemistry you know each other a little bit you have maybe flirted once or twice if not with your mouth but with your eyes so that desire becomes even stronger it depends on the relationship that you have with each other we all have an energy within us and there are energies that just melt together and within seconds become one and when that happens is one of the most beautiful feelings you will ever feel it is one of the greatest highs you will ever feel and when you make it about that other person it's even hotter than hot and if you understand energy and if you understand how they connect it becomes even more intense more beautiful

  • I guess "friendship" is out the window when Sexual desire kicks in... I guess the power to "explore the other" when we have them is much stronger than the "limitation" when the "partner" is close by. But some of us might like our "privacy/intimacy", and when we know we are not alone, then we tend to just "limit" to seeing and interacting without disturbing the "vibe".

  • I have danced with friends wives but have never done that…. disrespectful to my friend and their marriage I always think

  • Dance is a form of foreplay. He knows he can't have you but he enjoys the foreplay... and you didn't stop him, did you?

    • don't jump to conclusions he doesn't know he can't have me. in fact he may get the chance on day

    • @weysally Good for him... and for you;-)

  • It gets complicated.

  • it is sweet i liked ;)

  • All in one.

  • You like young 8inch dick inside your pussy?

    • that depends on the man with it, if you have to be so crude then your not

  • I'm afraid I'm not understanding what is your Q. What are you trying to ask? It SOUNDS as if you have the best of ALL worlds. A caring, openminded spouse and some added spice in your life.

    • I have the best of all worlds as far as sex is concerned, but the Q is simple, have a girl had this done to or have aby of you lads touched up a friends wife or girlfriend, I didn't stop him, I like attention

    • I have had an affair, but it ended.

  • Yes, been there

    • been there how

    • My wife’s friend was lonely. My wife arranged me and her friend to go on a date

  • Your friend probably already knows about your open relationship so it’s the only reason he did that unless he has some balls to touch his own friends wife in public.

  • Once a guy placed his hands on my girlfriend's waist while dancing and she moved away the next second. Glad that not all girls mix up porn in real life.

    • how do you mean?

    • what has porn got to do with it

  • its sweet i love it

    • Please explain