How gross does my body sound to you and should I remain a virgin because of it?

My body is to say the least, disgusting and disturbing. I don’t look like most women. They either have a couple of these flaws that are barely noticeable, or near perfect. I have chocolate skin (Haitian and Indian). My problems are broad shoulders/ saggy breasts and nipples hang low/ strawberry skin on legs and breasts/ extremely noticeable, light colored stretch marks on upper arms, breasts, back, across stomach, sides and inner thighs/ love handles that bulge out further than my hips/ small hips/ thighs that touch/ discoloration (nearly black) on inner thighs, inner butt cheeks, lower butt and vagina/ uneven skin tone/ large hands/ large feet/ multiple pea sized scars on butt, legs and arms/ and inner vagina is dark brown instead of pink. Scary huh? I want to remain a virgin, simply because it’s not fair for a guy to look at my body. I’m not going to put myself not only in an embarrassing situation, but putting a guy in a position where he wants to run for the hills.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • You know women are usually harder on themselves than men are right? First of all just because you don't see other women's flaws doesn't mean they aren't there. Broad shoulders aren't a big deal, all boobs sag somehow and I'm not really sure what you mean by your nipples hanging low. I'm also not sure what you mean by strawberry skin. EVERYONE has stretch marks somewhere. Touching thighs is totally normal, the thigh gap is what isn't normal. Scars are whatever, we all have them for one reason or another, uneven skin tone, sure whatever. And your vagina is far more normal than you want to believe. You're a woman, you're describing a woman. As humans we are all flawed creatures. My thighs touch. My penis is two different colors. I have bad skin on my face. I have lots of scars from doing stupid shit growing up and various surgeries and other stuff. I have stretch marks and man boobs. Who cares? I guarantee you when you take your clothes off in front of a man his thought isn't going to be "Oh damn, saggy titties." His reaction is going to be "Titties titties titties, I'm gonna touch some titties."

  • Well,
    1) Can't say anything without the photo of what you mean
    2) There's always a way to reshape your body (fitness, gym, yoga, cosmetic surgery)
    3) If you like, you can make the $$$ and buy any guy you want.

    There are plenty of ways to get laid in that world lol.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Wow. You are very self-conscious and critical of your own appearance. Trust me when I say this, there are guys out there who will be into you. Some guys have many of the same flaws you have, love handles, stretch marks, discolored skin. Having a perfect appearance isn’t everything. You have a lot to offer any guy who is willing to look. You’re not disgusting or scary. You’re an intelligent, articulate woman who just needs a little self confidence. By not putting yourself out there, you’re missing out on life. Let me ask a personal question, has a guy ever asked you out or shown interest?

  • You might think it is bad. Some guys, that care about your personality, would not be fazed by these things.

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  • I don't think your body sounds gross. I think you're being too hard on yourself and magnifying way out of proportion things that are very common and normal about the way real women look.

  • When a man loves a woman, its not because of her body, but because of the person she is.
    And if he loves her, she is automatically beautiful in his eyes.

  • I think you are wrong. No matter how many imperfections you have, you will always be perfect. You are a beautiful person so embrace that and in the future I'm sure you'll be ready to express that with someone else. Hope this helps.

  • You are just fine. Overthinking honestly

  • I think you need to learn to love yourself before your start dating. We only get one body so enjoy what you have. Confidence can be sexy. Rather than focus on your flaws why not list the positives...

  • Just find a guy who will run to the hills with you

  • I love stretch marks and veins and other marks on a woman!

    • Im serious about that