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  • As I am sure you know, there is hard, and then there is REALLY hard. When I was younger, my erections were pretty much always REALLY hard; and stayed that way for the duration. As a result, I learned to crave being played with when I was soft.

    If I am in the REALLY hard mode and we are having intense intercourse—hard and fast—then everything is perfect. …but long foreplay, slow riding sex, or (sadly, worst of all) cuddling starts to get uncomfortable before long. I, usually, had that “rock hard,” throbbing erection through all the slow comfy parts of intimacy—and it started to really hurt!

    This was, especially, true with some of the religious “good girls” I was with in my teens and twenties. If our intimate encounters stopped short of intense intercourse, I struggled to get rid of that uncomfortably hard erection. I dated one girl in High School who wanted to spend the whole afternoon kissing, touching, snuggling; with looooong manual stimulation. I enjoyed being with her, but it got really uncomfortable.

    I learned to want to dive into intercourse, get wild, ejaculate 2-3 times, THEN settle down to some long, cozy “foreplay” with a soft, sticky penis. I still really enjoy the feeling of fooling around while soft.

    …but once I was past my mid-thirties, I found that most of my arousal time was “just regular hard” and I didn’t solidify to REALLY hard until things shifted into high gear.

    Now, I can have foreplay, fool around, get a hand job, etc with that “erect but not rock hard” penis that you see in all the blowjob porn videos.

    • Maybe, that is one of the reasons you don’t like having sex with us older guys? Do you prefer a guy who stays absolutely rock hard the whole time you are rolling around?

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  • I can leave a mark on a face with it if we're to swing my hips and let it slap a face. I found that out. I felt terrible after but then she just said sorry and put it in her mouth. I still felt really bad. I just didn't say it for about 20 minutes or so.

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  • 2 levels of hard for me…I quickly get hard when I’m horny or aroused, but when I know I’m going to have sex and during foreplay I get super hard and feel I have no control over it. I’ll stay that way until having sex

  • You ask: How Hard do I get?

    My Answer: It depends on the woman.

  • There's hard. Morning wood. Ready to have sex. Turned on by something. Then there's extra hard. Exceedingly horny. There's been some foreplay. My wife has been teasing or edging me.

  • I lift so hard.

  • Armaggedon much

  • Depends on how hard I want to fuck her

  • Depends on the mood obviously

  • Depends. On a scale of 1 to 10 (1 being soft and 10 being rock hard), I'm usually about a 7 or 8; if really excited I sometimes am a 10.

    The best answer is... I get hard enough for the equipment to do work as intended.

  • Compared to what? A broom handle?

  • At my age (68) getting really hard is not an evidence anymore, but sometimes a good surprise pop up ;0)

    When I was young I guess to have been just normally hard, but when I was between 40 and 60 years, I often would be much harder after having had a good orgasm... My wife didn't understand, and neither did I, but it was fun because to get the beast to calm down completely, we had second round.

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