How hard is it really to have sex standing up?

[Anonymous]

I would think it'd be difficult to support her weight for extended periods of time. Have you tried this? Is it good? What do you think of it?

[Sangita93]

Me and my husband – both have not found standing se attractive or comfortable compared to all other positions. Just thinking about standing sex is enough to make our quads sore, body-positive pleasure should not be an extreme sport. When you expand the definition of sex beyond penis-in-vagina penetration, standing sex becomes accessible to a wider range of bodies and body combos. there are reasons people love it. It is visually interesting and it switches things up which is exciting, it also creates tension in the pelvic floor which can make penetration (or orgasm) feel different. Many movies have a standing-sex scene that is always super steamy. But IRL, having sex while you are standing up is a totally different story. Maybe you get fumbled, maybe you will fall down, or maybe you just can not seem to get even close to climaxing. There are some disadvantages to this position. It works best if the man is bigger than the woman because he is going to have to hold her up against the wall for - may be a long time. This can be tiring. Finding the right angle can be difficult since most partners are not the same height, usually the woman is shorter, the man will have to lift her up a bit and then enter her from this angle. This is going to take significant leg strength to lift her and then hold her in this position while inside her. This position is about aggression, power and passion. That means that it is not appropriate for all occasions. It is fantastic for hot passionate quickie sex. When both of you can not wait until you get to the bedroom, this position offers a great deal of passion and spontaneity. If girl is wearing a skirt, you can even have sex anywhere without too much hassle. Give it a try and you won’t regret it. Because this position requires a bit more effort than other simple positions, too many people dismiss it as not for them. But this can be one of the most exciting and passionate positions ever and it might just change the way you look at sex altogether. Not only does it let you play out your most passionate fantasies, it can also be a good way to achieve deep penetration which is good for both partners. Give it a try and it might become a favorite for both of you! having sex standing up is still worth trying because the best sex is not just about getting your big O, but also about bonding closer with your partner. And as awkward as it may seem in the moment, there is no better way to do that than by having a few flops in the bedroom. Because aside from some intimate memories, they will also lead to some extra-hot do-overs.

[loves2learn]

We tried it. Hubs had hip surgery 10 years ago and it was too hard on his hip. We have lots of other options. 🤷🏻‍♀️☺️

[Aeon_Norell]

Talking from experience, it is not as easy as porn makes it look; those guys have amazing isometric biceps endurance... And often the women are fairly short and light.
It take training (both in the bedroom and the gym), and I have yet to master this move, but it feels sexy lifting her up, and the women seem to find this position hot, too.

I've manage to do it somewhat comfortably with a tiny woman I was with once, but the more regular sized women I tend to be with are hard to do this with (which is why I've intensified my biceps training).
However, leaning against a wall as in your picture can make it doable.

I will also note that the way it's shown in the picture seems to be more comfortable for the woman, but for easier and deeper penetration, I suggest placing your arms under the knees and angling her buttocks closer to you.
Less comfortable for her being bent like that, but you can get deeper and you can use your arms to rock her back and forth, so your pelvis doesn't have to all the moving.

[The_Maphio]

As keeping another human being off the ground requires effort, muscles draw large amounts of blood to themselves and take priority on the spongy tissue that makes the penis, you might end up looking macho for holding her up, but soft as not enough blood get to the little bro downstairs.
You need a tad bit of muscle training for that to happen without an itch. More or less like the buff dude in the picture.

[razelove]

It's just awkward, and if you slip in a position like that without some back-up support, notice they aren't having sex, you can break your dick.

Better to just get with a woman around the same height or taller than you so you don't have to hold her up, rather than a smaller woman. It opens up far more additional possibilities. No matter ho strong you are, that shower floor is still going to be slippery, get ready for that dick cast and pills to do the opposite of viagra.

[IronLady6354]

Depends on how strong your partner is. My husband is actually in great shape so he can hold me up for long periods of time. He does this pretty frequently for me just because of how hot I find him screwing me while holding me up in with his strong arms/dominating me sexually this way because of how much he wants me.
However, if he's not really strong he probably can't hold you up for long periods of time while screwing you

[AshleyTaylorDanny]

My hubby doesn't seem to have any problems 😃

[purplepoppy]

It's one of my favourites but it's not for everyone. The secret is not to be overweight and adapt the position according to height difference.

[TheCunningLinguist]

I have many times to women of different heights and weights. I enjoy being the only thing in the world touching he's as I take her.

[jshm2]

It's not difficult, but it's not comfortable either. It's more for a "quickie" than anything.

Before you ask: no, porn makes it look good on camera for the scene, not because it actually is.

[Agape93]

Depends on how strong the guy is.

[Bazpurum]

I'm Quite Strong 😊❤️🎸🎶

[Agape93]

Good

[Bazpurum]

Thank U ❤️🎶✨

[Laciandmaci]

For me sex standing up is a major turn off!

[sheikalana]

Not my favorite but feels good.

[bowenw]

I've had good luck with standing doggy style, including in the shower, especially is she leans against a wall.

[exitseven]

We did it standing up a lot. She used to stand on my tool box. It was just the right height. One night she dented in the top of it.
I still have the toolbox and smile every time I see the dented in top.

[hawkeye92]

It can be pretty hard. Depends on the girl.

[Andres77]

Not up against the wall, just wrapped her legs around my waist... my arms wrapped around her under her arms and I kinda just lifted and dropped them as they ground their clit against me...

It almost feels like I'm jacking off with a huge sex toy...

They'd always cum, grinding the clit and the novelty helped them.
I take forever to cum so I've only cum once doing this.
Legs got really weak when I came... still had fun.

[HawkPerception]

This is part of the reason I prefer petite women. They are easier to toss around in bed than say... 150+ lbs (I'm not the strongest guy lmao). I love being able to manipulate their body easily in bed.

[dovido]

It really differs from a couple to couple. I used to have it all the time with my ex, cause she was shorter than me , but my girlfriend now is way smaller so we can really do it without bending so much it’s just losing it

[joshua_francis]

Tried several times with girlfriend but doesn't work wouldn't advise

I'd recommend trying other ones like missionary, doggy and cowgirl

[MasterOfReality]

depends on how strong you are and how bog she is... I dated a smaller girl in HS (she was 4-10 and a gymnast and cheerleader), and I could hold her up forever.

[IHateBeingaMan]

depends on the person i assume

[Steve1071]

Hard, especially if you have lower back issues and constantly thrusting 99-130lbs against your pelvis and holding your partner can cause you a back injury.

[In_Trance]

It's not that great for the reasons you mention