Guys, how hard is it to resist the urge to masturbate?

[Anonymous]

Does it take all your willpower or is it easy? What about if its been awhile? Help a girl understand how much desire a guy feels to get off.

[Apope16]

Depending on how long it has been sense I've masturbated it could be extremely intense. It can be no big deal if I am busy or stressed out or sad... however... after a date where a girl kisses me. Or if I am sexting a girl and she is talking about her pleasure during sex. Or if I get a nude pic. Or if I am having an intense and sensual conversation with a girl... It might take all the willpower in the world not to unzip and start flexing my schlong. When I am horny it can be very very intense.

The worst I have experienced is after a breakup with a woman I have had a sexual relationship with. Especially if I was in love with them. The throbbing and the aching and the pain had me masturbating 6 times in one day. I was humping pillows. Just all day the penis was throbbing just to feel my penis inside her pussy again.

Other intense experience are after the first time having sex with each new partner. I am talking about the first "sexual experience" where they have spent the night and they go home the next day. Then that evening or the day after... my penis is on fire with pleasure and an intense desire to have sex with her again. I have had situations where I have skipped weekend events just to stay at home to masturbate. I've had situations where I am in bed for 3 hours just masturbating and then taking a shower in the afternoon. I swear to god the throbbing pleasure of it all can be intense.

[Asker]

wow!

[Apope16]

Yeah. Sometimes it can be hard to sleep. I never really get aroused in the morning. But the day after having sex with a girl I wake up extremely hard. LIke my penis is just stiff and sometimes I am even on the verge of precum. I like spooning after sex because I am hard the entire night. She feels my penis throbbing, cozy and warm against her back or between her legs. sometimes she might reach back and grab it and stroke it and then its on. If not she just comfortable goes to sleep with me throbbing between her legs. Then I wake up the next day and I am immediately throbbing next to her again. At that point I am desperate to masturbate before I am even awake to form thoughts. I might snuggle against her with my hard on by spooning in the morning again. Just because I few a bit odd just masturbating while she is semi asleep in the sunlight. Once the feeling was so intense that I spent the whole night inside a girl. It was a long time ex girlfriend but she let me fall alseep inside her. That is one reason to get married. To experience the insane closeness and pleasure of falling asleep inside a woman.

[Asker]

Some of that is same for me, but if I don't orgasm when I have sex. the next morning and that day I am really wet and tingly and feels like something needs to be done

[Apope16]

Tell me about that. Are you saying women have morning wood like guys do? Or are you saying that they get wet reflecting on the previous nights sex?

[Asker]

I meant if he came and I didn't

[Apope16]

Yummy. Unfinished biznaz. :)

[Asker]

yes if I'm unfinished its irritating the next morning and feels like I need to finish it. If it don't it sort of bugs me all day

[Apope16]

A girl last night was so horny that she paid my uber ride for me to go to her place to make out with her. She said that I rubbed her clit and she orgasmed awhile back. I think im hood at sexting so she got horny.

[LesterJester]

The thing to consider is that while women release an egg once every month, guys are continually producing sperm until the day they die... Or become impotent or whatever.

As it accumulates, the desires for sex increases. When a guy ejaculates / orgasms, in most cases, one's sexual desires drops to zero and interest in sex deminishes significantly, or gone completely. This is also why it's difficult for guys to keep going after orgasm, because not only is the desire deminished from the mind, but even the erection starts to fail and can be quite difficult to maintain or get back up.

If a guy goes days without sex or masturbating, the excess developed sperm is broken down and released back into the body, but the desire and urges do not deminish until something is done about it. Other times it could end up as a wet dream or similar at night.

Yes, one can go days without sex or masturbating, but the urges do not go away. You can put them to the back of the mind and distract yourself with work or hobbies, etc. but it's always there and can become quite the distraction at times.

How hard it is to resist the urge depends on the individual.

[Asker]

wow good answer... do you feel full down there?

[LesterJester]

No, not really. I'm what they call, "Not very fun."

[AustinMan]

Pretty damn hard, no pun intended.

[JackSmy]

Why should a guy resist that natural desire and normal joy? Most normal guys just get off to porn, or images when they feel horny. Why should they resist that?

[SkipStop]

For me, I can handle my sexual urges pretty easily as long as I am not exposed to anything sexual. It's the porn and sex questions online that give me the urge and necessity to jerk off.

[abc3643]

It's easier when you are older simply because you want to sleep more or gotta get up to poop and get on with your day. Your free time becomes less and what precious free time you have needs to be allocated to things with higher priority than jacking off.

When I was young, I'd squirt every day - often more than once a day. Now, maybe 5 times a week. I just love sleeping in Saturday morning and only get out of bed to pee/poop.

[siferius90]

It is incredibly hard. Everything reminds you of the pleasure your penis can give you and you just crave it.

I tried to quit masturbation hundreds of times, failed each time.

[InfobotsMom]

I find it easy. It's not even resisting, I just don't feel the need.

[Porter21]

I masturbate almost every day! I can’t help I just love to get off!
I can masturbate any time I want and almost any were I can!

[wankiam]

when i want to 'get off' thats exactly what i have to do... i rarely fight the urge

[Asker]

its impossible

[Asker]

is that what you mean?

[wankiam]

it may be possible but i can't see the point so if i want a wank i have a wank

[Sufferesin2000]

For me its easy. I only masturbate when its been days and i keep getting ramdom bonners.

[Ripper_E]

Depends on how aroused I am and what I'm doing