How hard is it to see a girl you like with someome else?

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BeMuse · Accepted Answer

I don't invest emotion energy into women I'm not with. If an attractive women that I find interesting is already dating/married to a different man, then she's not single. That's pretty simple, you just move on to the next one. If you mean like you've been in a relationship with a girl for a few years and you walk in on her banging some other loser, I couldn't tell you... I've never been cheated on. I'm sure the betrayal be would piss me off, but it's not something I have personal experience with.

Gent207-2 · Accepted Answer

Like seeing an ex with someone else eventually you move on and get used to it. But yeah it hurts like a witch for the moment until you memorialize the death if the relationship and embrace the new normal that she is no longer part of your story

catiecatie · Accepted Answer

Shit it’s hard to see a guy you like with someone else. So basically a crush. Let’s just say they call it a crush for a reason, but hey anything can happen. I’m hoping my crush comes around and I’ll hope your does too! We are in this together! Fingers crossed man!

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

My cousins ex girlfriend hid her new relationship after she broke up with my cousin, she did not want to hurt his feelings. We found out through my grandma who was friends with her grandpa / grandma. They met while visiting family at the seniors home.

SnowedIn · Answer

Extremely difficult.

Rogue_Agent · Answer

It sucks, especially when she's your ex.

slatyb · Answer

Eventually you grow up and realize that a crush is just a crush.

Dargil · Answer

Let it go as soon as you can. There's someone else waiting for you.

talka20 · Answer

Very much initially

xJeremyx · Answer

Not difficult, really. Just accept it, and life goes on. She's happy? Good for her. Then I am happy too.

It's not the end of the world, and there are better things to do than think or grieve about the unrequited "love".

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

I don't have feelings for her if she's taken or persuing/accepting another guy. Once I see any evidence she is interested in another guy, any interest I had in her dissapears completely.

DiegoO · Answer

A crush, meh, an ex, shortly after breaking up: it burns; an ex, years later: meh.

Wise4myage · Answer

Its only harder for me if the breakup wasn't toxic. Otherwise, the hell with her.

LiamJHayden · Answer

I consider taken women off-limits and do not pursue. If she is single and I fancy her, I do not waste time asking her. If she rejects, I move on. In neither case is it difficult for me.

kellytheman · Answer

It might be like what does he have that I don't but you just got to remember there might be someone better around the corner.

MadAndBankrupt · Answer

Hard enough to make me forget about her.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Was difficult when I was younger and immature.  As you age you learn if it didn't work out for you to be with them then it was for the better.

Pete671 · Answer

Bit of a turn on tbh,,,

peterrezeeek · Answer

it feels hurt and sad.. but i can't say anything in the same time..

Twalli · Answer

It depends on who she's with and goe happy she is with him.

In_Trance · Answer

This doesn't happen. I don't understand what you mean really

KyleC19 · Answer

It was a bit hard at first after breaking up with my ex and seeing and hearing she was with another guy. But I got over it pretty quick because I focused my thoughts on another girl I like and don’t waste my time thinking about her anymore. And if I do see her around it doesn’t bother me anymore. It did help that our relationship didn’t last long either.