How has sex changed for you as you aged?

What were the stages of changes? How did you cope?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • 1. Beginning: no idea what I was doing
    2. Honeymoon phase: oooh this is fun and exciting! Let’s do all the things.
    3. Marriage: we are married now! Sex is hot!
    4. A few more years of marriage: sometimes we have ruts. Usually still sex a few times a week.
    5. LETS MAKE BABIES: the hottest sex everrrrr. Whew.
    6. Pregnancy: sick/no sex, 6 week of doctor order abstinence for the babies health, months 4-7/8: hot sex, doggy style. Months 8/9: to uncomfy for sex.
    7. Baby is born. 6 more weeks of doctor order abstinence.
    8. Getting back into sex after babe, learning curve.
    9. Sex is good again! Creative sex because of sleeping baby/baby in our bed.
    10. Repeat 6-9 for baby #2
    11. Mid thirties: find your sex drive up again. Start trying all the things.

    • That’s a very accurate description.

    • Thanks. Haha

    • Where are you on that list?

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  • Learned what I liked and I’ve been more open to a lot of things. Oh the collection of toys has happily grown. My sex drive is the same still high.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Learning how to stay mostly erect or get erect again right away after cumming has a been trait I've gotten better at as I got older.

    Kind of amazing, it just can't keep going on though.

  • I will be 50 next month. My drive seems the same as always but I can't go all night like I used to.

    • You mean trouble sustaining erections or long refractory period?

    • Long rests in between.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • 20s sex was meant to serve the woman and pleasure her but make sure I got off. 30s I got a lot more selfish and dominant, and the women definitely like that better.

  • It just keeps getting better, and I'm 66. I can honestly say that my wife and I have the greatest sex ever, a couple of times a week. We both climax quickly too, which is great.

  • Women are finally realizing that UNLIKE what they thought years ago, most men are ass-men first and NOT boob-men!

  • No change in my libido

  • 20s inexperienced.
    30s she couldn't climax.
    40s my mid-life crisis.
    50s less pressure... but her interest in sex declined.
    As of now, still have a healthy interest, often unmet.

  • Just harder to get now that I’m divorced

  • Learned more about what I like and about my body.
    Expects more from my partner, want better sex.

    Been more comfortable with myself and enjoyed it much more.

    • That's nice! I think I'm about to go down that road too

  • My sex drive dropped off a bit after 27

    • How are your erections and refractory periods?

  • As I’ve aged I’ve wished my sex drive would go down. It hasn’t. I think I might get my bits cut off so I can be over it for good.

    • That's unfortunate! :( All the best for your plans for the future!

    • Thanks for your well wishes!