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How I Learned to Cope With My Fetish

Everyone has a fetish. Many people think that they don't have one, but chances are you have a fetish of some sort. Me? I have six. But that's unimportant. In this myTake, I'll explain how I coped with having a fetish. This is a long one, so just bear with me.

Before we begin, i want to go back to what I said earlier. Around 67% of people know for a fact that they have a fetish. 25% of people think they don't have a fetish, but chances are they do. Especially if they're heterosexual. And that leaves the remaining 11% of people who are indifferent.

They don't think that they have a fetish but they couldn't care less. Here's a pie chart (that I made in Excel, ugh) that describes this in detail if you're a visual person.

How I Learned to Cope With My Fetish

I'm part of the 67% but I used to be a part of the minor 22%. I didn't think I had a fetish until recently (I was in the seventh grade and had full access to the computer, long story)

My fetish began when I was in the seventh grade. I was in online school at the time, and had full reign on the computer. One day, when I was supposed to be working on an assignment, I decided to look up "belly button" on Google just to see what would come up. After sorting through all sorts of porn (don't ask) I went to a tab on Google Images that has thousands of pictures. It took me about thirty minutes to realize that i was addicted to belly buttons.

How I Learned to Cope With My Fetish

Here's how to remedy a belly button fetish:

1) Go to the beach or the pool

This is a simple one but go anywhere you can see girls with their belly buttons exposed. That way you can stare at them as much as you like. The deeper the better. Innie belly buttons are the best. But you have to be careful; don't let yourself get caught staring. I once had a woman threaten to kick my ass because I was following her around (I was trying to poke her belly button but i wanted to wait until the right time).

How I Learned to Cope With My Fetish

2) Have a girl show you her belly button

This one is tougher but if you have a friend, you can always ask her to show you her belly button. It has to be a girl you know. As I learned from experience, you can't just ask ANYONE you know to show you her belly button. Even so, you have to ask.

3) Use the fucking internet.

If all else fails, use the internet. I'm not saying fucking pornhub or that shit but there's a rule of the internet: If it exists, there's a link of it online, a picture of it on Google Images, and a video of it on YouTube. Look up belly button on google images or a video on YouTube and chances are there will be a video that you're interested in.

There's NOTHING WRONG with having a fetish. If someone tells you there is, there's something wrong with them. Thank you for bearing with me on this.

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Most Helpful Guy

  • Do you know the definition of a fetish? Obviously not because everyone does not have a fetish

    A fetish is sexual excitement in response to an object or body part that’s not typically sexual, such as shoes or feet. They’re more common in men. And just because you like your women in heels while having sex doesn't necessarily mean you have a shoe fetish.

Most Helpful Girl

  • I don't find that any of those help me "cope" with my fetishes... but maybe for someone who just needs to see something to get turned on those ideas are pretty good :)

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  • The difference with a fetish and kink is such that a fetish is priority and must be present so that sexual gratification is fulfilled whereas a kink is something that arouses you but does not need to be present and is not dependent for your sexual gratification.

  • Indulge your fetish. The term fetish used to have spiritual connotations. You're welcome to look at any pics that I may have that include me BB. in fact, now that you mention it, it seems like a fetish worth cultivating.

  • The best way to 'cope' with them is to explore them with a willing partner.

  • you're very young to talk about a subject like this. Most men haven't even discovered this yet. And everyone has but you can't hide what you don't know.

    • Why did i have a feeling that the first opinion on this would be somebody trying to prove me wrong? I'm "too young?" I'm fucking seventeen how is that too young

    • I ain't saying that you too young but very young as in that most boys of 17 aren't that far in sexuality as you.

    • Most 17 year old guys be like pussy, ass and boobs make me horny but there is a certan point or thing that makes your really horny what is actually not horny or normally horny making like leather or SM and shit. I think you should read better.

  • god take-

  • If I may ask, what are your other fetishes? If you would rather not say them here you can message me

    • Belly button, boobs, ass, female feet, scat (the idea of poop, not poop itself) and the menstrual cycle

    • Cool 👍🏻👍🏻

    • it sounds like you're basically attracted to women's bodies & their essence, which does not qualify as a fetish. Boobs & asses (sounds like a band name) mos def is not a fetish. Unless you can't climax w/o the though of poop, that ain't one either. It's just... odd I guess. Sorry to burst your bubble.

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