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There are lots of posts on here about women having trouble orgasming from sex or even feeling anything from sex, so here are my really simple tips. If I do things this way, I either get an orgasm or get 90% of the way there and feel pretty satisfied. I'll feel close to orgasm pretty fast too. It takes me about a minute or two to orgasm if I'm really turned on. Or like 4-5 minutes if it's more spontaneous sex. And these tips work for when I use toys also.
1. Do Foreplay...and focus!
It doesn't have to be long foreplay or particular acts. I just need to be able to be focused on the pleasure enough to get wet and more horny. So even just taking a finger and massaging down there (or even me doing it) for a few minutes can get me turned on enough. I don't say wet because depending on the time of month I don't have much discharge. But as long as I'm turned on the sex is fine, and the foreplay doesn't have to be complex. So by this point I'm at like 25% of the way there.
2. Have sex, and tell him how to thrust!
My body can be weird. I can go from needing fast thrusts to needing him to stop, to needing slow, to needing hard ones, in seconds. So I have to adjust constantly. I can be in the same position. But I need to express how I need the thrusting done. Or I just DIY with a toy if I'm alone. But guys think it's really sexy if you whisper what you need so it works out xD
3. Mental stimulation
I don't necessarily need it at all but it can help. If I'm alone I fantasize. But it can also be distracting. So if I was with a guy, I would need to tell him when to dirty talk so it helps the pleasure build instead of throwing me off.
So for any girls who have trouble orgasming or who want to orgasm faster, I would say that you should try taking control in bed. I prefer when guys are on top, so I don't mean that LOL I'm saying, I think it could help if you tell him exactly what you need when you need it, if you haven't tried that. It can be so easy for me to lose focus or the pleasure if things aren't just right. But feeling pleasure when I do things like this is so so easy. I can also be in any position I want.
And I've felt the kind of sex where you either don't feel anything or it was even slightly painful. For me, that was just because I wasn't turned on at all. So, you could try my simple tips and see if they help. Or also experiment with toys too, to see if they can help you get more comfortable with penetration. They definitely helped me with that a lot, and they helped most of all to show me that when I'm turned on everything feels great.
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