Girls, how important are blowjobs in a relationship, for you?

[CameronStark]

Important?

Something I've found interesting to learn on GaG has been how important blowjobs are in a relationship for some girls - of course not all girls. I am wondering how prevalent this is - are blowjobs to completion an important element to a romantic relationship for most girls? Or just some? Feel free to share your feelings about them in the comments and I promise to respond. I'm interested to hear how girls feel about blowjobs personally - not just what they do for the guy. What makes them important to you?

[Xoxocutekitty]

There are a lot of reasons that I would not be in the mood to give a bj, like its a hot day and/or he was sweaty and didn't shower, or he didn't shower that day or since the last time we had sex. Maybe I'm not that turned on and would prefer him to get me turned on first.
I think it's good to have oral (for both) on a weekly basis instead of penetrative sex. It gives your body a day to rest while you can still get off. It's just not something I want to "have to do" each and every time. I want it to still be somewhat special with a little prep work put in.

[CameronStark]

That sounds nice actually. Yeah, I wouldn't want it to be something that a girlfriend felt like she *had* to do, either - I only want her to do it if she actually wants to. A blowjob when the girl feels like it's a chore is actually kinda hurtful and I'd rather just not have it at all! Then again when she really wants to do it, it's one of the most wonderful things. And the same the other way around, too! I can't imagine ever _not_ wanting to go down on my girl, though 😅 There's always showers if people are sweaty!

[chrissykerdock]

for me giving a blowjob is hot and sexy... i love being in a mini skirt on my knees sucking while he enjoys himself... i suck until he cums and feel good that i made him cum and of course happy to make him feel good as well.

[CameronStark]

Can you imagine what a more peaceful world this would be if everyone were more like you? Guys and girls alike - everybody going down on each other. Paradise.

[chrissykerdock]

if only this were more of a loving world... not every man wants that kind of love.

[DrippingHoney]

I think they are more important for a guy. Unless you are referring to oral on a girl as a BJ too. Receiving oral is an absolute must for me in a relationship.

[CameronStark]

Well, I don't have that issue, because I really love to go down. But I hear you. I've had girlfriend's where it felt like she was just performing a chore that she needed to get over with, and that's just the worst.

[whitegirl0915]

Super important because I have giving head?

[CameronStark]

Super important because you *love it? If that's what you mean, rock on! I love going down, too. It's so much fun.