How important are boobs?

[Anonymous]

hi! i apologize in advance if i make any grammar mistakes but English isn’t my first language.
i’m 20 and i never had big insecurity problems, i don’t have an high self esteem but i had people compliment my looks and i myself (sometimes) think i’m cute. the only problem is that lately i’ve been insecure about my boobs cause i realized they’re not very pleasantly looking. i will not go into details on how they look cause that’s not really important but basically they’re almost like cones from the side and more rounded but still weird shaped from the front and a bit asymmetrical. i also have puffy nipples so they look slightly better when they’re hard or when i’m cold. only good thing is that they’re perky. anyways, since i’m still a virgin i will leave some questions so hopefully you can put my mind at ease.

for guys:
are weird boobs a deal breaker or a turn off?
what would you think/do if the girl you liked had weird boobs?
would you slowly fall out of love because you would start to find her unattractive?

for girls (that are in my same situation):
have you ever had any problems with your partners in bed or in your relationship in general?

ps. i won’t consider surgery at the moment because it’s expensive and i’m very scared of the complications.

[SueShe]

Breasts are important when you are breastfeeding and other than that, I consider them more of a nuisance than anything else. They are the source of so much sexism and objectification.

As to the shape of your breasts, the nipples could be an indication that you are experiencing hormonal changes or a hormone imbalance. That is nothing unusual but if you feel insecure, you should consult a gynecologist about the condition. This can be fixed but solutions depend on the cause.

If they are caused by being overweight or obese, then losing weight through exercise and a healthy diet is the best way to achieve this.

Under no circumstances should you undergo an operation as this is a useless procedure that will not address the cause of your breast shape.

[Asker]

my mother is a dietician so i’ve always been in shape and had a good nutrition. my nipples where puffy when i was younger too so i guess it’s just my genetics. i will consider going to a gynecologist, it could still help me!

[SueShe]

Yes of course, seeking the advice of a specialist is your best and safest option. Good luck.

[Sirenboobzilla]

You're gonna find that people love boobs regardless of their shape and size. We grow up being told that our boobs need to be these big, perky, gravity defying things. but in reality, that's not what we end up getting. I was self conscious of mine growing up. I was told that mine were too big for boys to like... Of course I got older and knew better. Point is, don't fret about them. Embrace them and you'll start noticing just how many people like what you've got

[Asker]

thank you! i’ll try my best to accept them

[Reaper1985]

I find a verity of sizes and shapes of boobs attractive provided they fit with the girls overall body. but what matters to me is it her boobs are natural or not since I'm not a fan of unnatural looking fake ones.

[Asker]

i don’t know if they fit me ahah but yea, i’m afraid i wouldn’t like how fake ones looks either that’s why i’m keeping them as they are even if i think they’re ugly

[Reaper1985]

well since boobs are mostly made from a mix of fat and muscle tissue. it's possible to naturally change how they look over time with diet and exercise to some small degree. however most of how they look boils down to genetics really.

[Mac-One]

Based on your description they don't appear to be weird; just tiny and perky - rather attractive and practicable..

[Mac-One]

Surgery should never an option for enlarging them.

[Asker]

they are small but i don’t mind that, the shape is the problem cause they’re like >> ahaha

[Mac-One]

What is the problem with the shape?

[Asker]

they’re two asymmetrical cones

[Mac-One]

Nothing wrong with that; it is rather common for breasts to be slightly different.

[Lenell]

I dont care about boobs

[convo_king89]

I like boobs either way. If I get the chance to see a girl or you topless I wouldn't really notice imperfections.

[Wise4myage]

Puffy nipples are always sexy to me.

[Wise4myage]

No such thing as "weird" boobs.

[Asker]

ahah alright then, what about ugly boobs?

[Wise4myage]

Their is no such thing, lol.

[Asker]

hhmm but i’ve seen boobs and a lot of them are pretty while when i look at the mirror mine aren’t

[Wise4myage]

I bet your boobs look great, its all about believing in yourself and being self confident. And remember, boobs alone don't make a girl whole.

[Wise4myage]

Send me a dm.

[Asker]

my xper level is too low, it says

[Wise4myage]

Ok, well

[Asker]

thank you by the way!

[Wise4myage]

I could send you dms but you can't anonymous. :) Maybe you can contact me when you reach level 2?

[Wise4myage]

You're very welcome.

[Kareem_z21]

At first this thing is subjective. You may find it weird or ugly but the guy may find it sexy or attractive looking.

And even if it's really "weird" that's not a turn off at all

[Asker]

thank you, hope you’re right ahah

[Kareem_z21]

You are welcome. But always remember that the real guy will love you for who you are :)

[Asker]

true but boobs are supposed to be one of the attractive parts of a woman body so that’s why i’m sad about mine

[Kareem_z21]

Did any guy tell you they are nor attractive? If no then you don't know guys preferences

[Asker]

no one ever told me anything because no one saw them yet ahah

[Kareem_z21]

Your future guy will love them don't worry 😌

[Asker]

hope so !!

[TallAnon]

There's always extremes, but in generally we don't care, boobs are boobs

[Asker]

i see, thank you! what would be an extreme?

[TallAnon]

There's always medical problems, imagine a third boob or huge deformities. I'm sure yours look just fine to most of us 🙂

[Asker]

well, i haven’t got myself checked but i might have a mild case of tubular breast which is considered a deformity, so 🫠

[TallAnon]

Like you said, that sounds mild 😊 I'm talking about extremes.

[Asker]

mmhh true ahaha i really hope it won’t be a problem

[TallAnon]

I can't just ask you to show them, lol, but I'm sure you're just fine. I would only consider surgery if it feels physically unpleasant to you.

[Asker]

i think to give me a true opinion you should see them irl, so ahah no they just mentally trouble me

[TallAnon]

I mean, you're just threatening me with a good time now 😜

[lawhawk]

Stop worrying. We aren't sitting there examining you for any imperfections. We are just quite happy we get to see them at all.

[In_Trance]

They're pretty important

[Asker]

i see, so you would leave her?

[Nahid1707]

Natural is always good 😊

[Bklynbadboy12]

Nope the definitely not a deal breaker and they're probably not weird probably just to you but trust me guys are gonna love them. Yout probably have a really hot body

[Asker]

thank you! i’m pretty sure they are weird, i just hope it’s not a problem!

[landingout2]

not that important

[Asker]

thank you!!

[Sampan2017]

I love all sizes and shapes of the breast