How important is it for you that a guy cums during sex?

Anonymous

I don't want to cum in general for certain reasons. How do you feel about it?

He HAS to cum if he wants to be with me

Vote A

It's important but not a deal breaker

Vote B

Not so important. I'm fine with it

Vote C

I would prefer it that way

Vote D

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Girl Guy

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+1 y

I know that kind of things are negotiatable but i'm curious about how girls actually feel about it.

+1 y

I must have done something wrong i guess? Where are all the girls?

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Squirts93 Xper 5
+1 y
here's a secret that is the actual reason christians dont want darwinism and natural selection taught in schools:

Women are sluts by default. Their genetic prerogative is to get as many cocks and as much cum as possible to improve their chances of getting pregrant. Its physically hardwired into their brains.

Only through a long process of mental conditioning do women have this instinct supressed; its one of the reasons they are so easily traumatized and embarrassed, their brains have been reprogrammed to be something they aren't, which is why girls who have trauma usually turn to sex as repreive because it feels good and that can erase all their "traumas."
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- Asker
  +1 y
  That's surely true for a lot of girls but you can't generalize it. We are Souls in the first place, not bodys.
- Squirts93
  +1 y
  A 'soul' is just piles of neurons connected to synapses that store patterns of positive chemical energy transfers and stores the sequences of protein chains as dna that produce hormones that cause you to behave in ways proactive to your survival and reproduction. Call it what you want, its just nature.
- Asker
  +1 y
  No, it is not. You are talking about the nature of the lower world soul, there are two dimensions above from it, besides the higher world soul. It's possible to perceive your soul separate from your body. Then you'll know what i'm talking about. Everything is predetermined. We are all actors in a movie we made together. Even going back to the past is possible, since it's a separate dimension. 1) The One 2) Divine Mind 3) Higher world soul 4) Lower world soul (nature)
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- Squirts93
  +1 y
  Yea thats really poetic but not scientific so it isn't really relevant to things like psychology and neurology.
- Asker
  +1 y
  There are a lot of indications for that. Science can only find what it's looking for. It's very limited by default. Don't limitate yourself to that.
- Squirts93
  +1 y
  Yes but the results are reproducable whereas your spirituality is subjective and only gives you the results you want to see. Its a neat trick when you want to feel right about things and tell people they just aren't as enlightened as you, but not really applicable to real life.
- Asker
  +1 y
  It is applicable. Even when you're trying to refuse it, it will be stronger than you. You just need to be in the right situation. Then you'll see it.
- Asker
  +1 y
  Sry for my English
- Squirts93
  +1 y
  Right so only under the right circumstances is the result true. And we won't know what those circumstances are until the truth appears before us. Thats the most poetic description of ignorance. You obviously aren't interested in results, you just want to feel like you know something that nobody can prove unless its just the right circumstances. You should google "logical fallacies."
- Asker
  +1 y
  The wise man is conscious beforehand. Not afterwards. When you are ready there is a Synthesis, but it seems like you're cut off from your true self. You need to connect again by throwing off every nonsense you have in your mind. That's the first step.

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Gedaria Master
+1 y
It's not important to cum. But some one if not both should orgasm, if he doesn't the woman will not. So it must be very weird sex
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- Asker
  +1 y
  Thats A whole lot of bs.
- Gedaria
  +1 y
  Sadly the question was a little bit that way. If no one cums. It's just a quick fumble not sex...

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DizzyDesii Editor
+1 y
I can't cum until he cums. I mean i can but my main explosive orgasm is when he cums
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- Asker
  +1 y
  Guys who don't ejaculate are way better lovers. That i can assure you.
- DizzyDesii
  +1 y
  Maybe but i prefer a guy who cums fast and can then cum again within that same hour. I hate waiting. And if i drain him dry in the first hour, he still needs to be able to go more rounds (even if cumless) for like 3 more hours
- Asker
  +1 y
  You think i'm just a fool, right? I'm not. Just not a good English speaker. That's part of the reason why i appear so reserved on here.
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- DizzyDesii
  +1 y
  Think you're a fool why? You asked and i told
- Asker
  +1 y
  That doesn't sound like lovemaking at all. Of course sex can be rough and passionate but the way you describe it sounds a bit senseless, even robotic. I think you need to open up your heart at first. Then all these limitations can dissappear. They are not essential, mostly made up in our minds.
- DizzyDesii
  +1 y
  You clearly understand nothing I say. Going multiple rounds lovemaking is awesome. No one has time for edging. Cum so we can keep going. Im done here
- Asker
  +1 y
  I understood everything. You need all of the cum. Thanks for your honesty.
KinaJoy13 Xper 6
+1 y
I mean it would be nice I don't see why he wouldn't
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- Asker
  +1 y
  Why is that important to you?
- KinaJoy13
  +1 y
  I mean if he doesn't want to I don't care

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Iron_Man Master
+1 y
Next time make this an all female question
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Anonymous
+1 y
Option A is so true.
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- Asker
  +1 y
  Why you think so?
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  A man orgasms only when he cums
- Asker
  +1 y
  Not necessarily, but i don't even need to orgasm
Anonymous
+1 y
sometimes I don't cum and she feels guilty but I am fine with ity
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