How important is oral sex in a relationship?

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tfan1 · Accepted Answer

Well, when we were dating my girlfriend now my wife, I asked her to suck my penis and I was very close to ejaculating in her mouth and I told her that I was getting ready to ejaculate and she had a choice that she could either spit it out or she could swallow. It was her choice. Either way was OK with me, she chose to swallow and she gagged on it big time. She said that she almost threw up and it completely put her off the idea of ever doing it again. Unfortunately, now if she sucks my penis, she does not really put in the effort to make me ejaculate - her touch of her tongue and mouth is almost like a tease. It’s never enough to make me ejaculate however that’s OK I love licking my wife’s clitoris but recently she said that she couldn’t feel my tongue so I ended up getting her a bullet sized vibrator and I use it on her clitoris and she’s able to orgasm 1 to 3 times. I really enjoy seeing her in pleasure and me, her husband - the only one that should be giving it to her.

Woodchuck411 · Accepted Answer

It all depends on the person some people like it more than others.

chrissykerdock · Accepted Answer

it's very important to give a guy oral sex... and i much rather give than receive because i love it and it's just easier and expected... if you wear a short minidress odds are a guy will get hard and want you to relieve him.

Apple1996 · Accepted Answer

Extremely important

Orion84 · Answer

I very much prefer to give, than receive.

If she didn't enjoy giving, it wouldn't bother me very much, but if she didn't like to receive, then I would be very disappointed. It wouldn't be a deal breaker, but I would definitely miss going down on her.

musicbrain5 · Answer

I said “other”. It’s different for each couple. For my husband and I, it’s very important, but for another couple it may not be important.

ObscuredBeyond · Answer

It can be very flattering for a guy, especially if she takes it in the throat swab position. But in the end, I'd rather her mouth stay clean, so her and I can make out. Her putting that in, especially dirty, ruins the entire kissing game for me.

Berethor · Answer

I am not giving it and I am okay with not getting it as well, to be fair, only PIV is fine with me.

mandyfire98 · Answer

Very important

Rixon · Answer

Very important I can’t imagine a relationship where I could not give oral to my sex partner

Dargil · Answer

It dramatically improves a relationship but not a deal breaker if I don't get it. I want a Bentley, too but I'm not gonna get it unless I'm willing to pay too much for it.

Alexz0 · Answer

I like to give. Not receive.

Ironic_Method · Answer

Super important. It's my favorite despite never being able to get off that way.

Huntingnfishin · Answer

Who doesn't enjoy the way it feels to have a chick on her knees servicing you. Kind of like the ultimate domination if you ask me

LiamJHayden · Answer

Receiving, I do not care. Giving to her, I really hope she is into it.

DummyThiccFeraligatr · Answer

Not really.

Rich371ca · Answer

I rather give them receive I never found anyone that did that too well

Longshank · Answer

Absolutely imperative to give and receive and I think if a women finds you super hot and is in to sucking your dick she will absolutely let you CIM there’s nothing more sexy! Equally I love going down Ona girl for at least half hour to warm her up before I’m deep inside