How important is sex in a new relationship?

Anonymous

After asking a lady out and she accepts your proposal. how soon or late is it okay to ask for sex without looking like a pervert if your partner isn't making any moves?

1 0

AI Bot Choice

Superb Opinion

DiegoO Guru
+1 y
You don't ask for sex, you read between lines, you analyse body language, then a little try (a mile kiss=passionate kiss=so on).

Is obvious to say that if during the kiss she interrupts you, and decide to leave things till there, better leave it till there. Also, if you didn't make it to first base, or if after months, she is irresponsive, that's a red flag in Eifel Tower scale.
0 0 0 0
- Asker
  +1 y
  Thanks Diego. but I feel like we really hitting it off. and I'm so good at screwing shit. I just don't wanna screw up this time

Most Helpful Girl

Screenwriter Guru
+1 y
If she ISN'T making any moves, I would always hold off and feel my way through the situation. If this is one of a few first dates, what's the rush?
IT's never too late. But it's often too early. Let the woman take the lead with sex unless you find her painfully shy, which at your age neither of you should be.
0 1 0 0
- RandomLoser
  +1 y
  If he lets her take tt lead he'll never get sex period.
- Screenwriter
  +1 y
  @RandomLoser I did say UNLESS HE FINDS HER PAINFULLY SHY, which at their ages would be unusual...
- RandomLoser
  +1 y
  Whether she's shy or not makes zero difference. If he doesn't try to get sex then he'll never get sex.
- Show All Show Less
- Screenwriter
  +1 y
  @RandomLoser I think BOTH can come to an agreeable conclusion. Certainly happened with me early on.
- RandomLoser
  +1 y
  The point is if she can get a relationship without ever opening her legs she'd do it. The only way he can get sex is to demand it.
- Screenwriter
  +1 y
  @RandomLoser I disagree. Adult women enjoy sex as much as adult men. "Demand?" I don't think most people respond well to "demands." Has to be agreement and mutual attraction.
- RandomLoser
  +1 y
  A male can't get sex unless he demands it. Meaning he will say if he doesn't get it then she doesn't get something else, like his money and commitment. Women have no desire to give sex. They want a free relationship just like men want free sex.
- Screenwriter
  +1 y
  @RandomLoser You clearly don't know many adult women. Women enjoy sex. Mostly in a framework of some kind of committment, true. If women desire to HAVE sex, they have a desire to give sex. However, they will only give sex to men they feel are appropriate, not to random men simply because they have money or can exchange "something else." Women are more judicious about this exchange because they can get pregnant and if they won't consider abortion, they will be in a financial/social pickle. Men want "free" sex because in their case it is nearly completely free. They never get pregnant and in many cases, if they're having sex with a multitude of women who might also be having sex with more than one man, it's hard to prove who is the father... thought nowadays, there are DNA tests. But if a man disappears... doesn't matter who is the father. He'll have no responsibility for the child.
- RandomLoser
  +1 y
  Yeah ok I'm not saying women can't enjoy sex. They can tolerate it very well depending on the individual. But in the end they will always try to avoid it if they can. An example of free sex is rape. Women hate rape because it's sex they don't get paid for. Yeah I've read all the stuff they say about ptsd and whatever but in the end it's really just a few minutes of sex with the only difference they get nothing in return for it.

Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions

What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!

What Girls & Guys Said

0 1

Twalli Master
+1 y
3+ months
0 1 0 0
- Asker
  +1 y
  Are you for real? is there a time frame
- DiegoO
  +1 y
  Is more a limit scale. You don't be the fool who waits forever.
- Twalli
  +1 y
  @DiegoO I don't have sexin under 3 months. I am fine with anything but penetration below the waist up to that point though.