How important is sex in a relationship to you?

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Sangita93 · Accepted Answer

There are many factors that make or break a relationship, emotional and physical intimacy is two of those. Physical reasons include pleasure, stress relief, exercise, sexual curiosity, or attraction to a person. Emotional reasons include love, commitment and gratitude. Goal-based reasons that are emotional and physical both include making a baby (future generation), and improving social status. While some may accord emotional strength and bond more importance, physical intimacy also holds the same value. Here are four reasons why sex is important in a relationship. The point of connect between the couple in early stage of relationship is sex, what makes the relationship stronger. Many times, some people are not too good at expressing their love towards their partner; sex is just another form of communication. And if there is immeasurable love between the two, it makes sex even more fulfilling and meaningful. Your emotional connection with your significant other may already be strong but making love frequently makes the bond stronger between them. It releases the ‘love’ hormone in the process which leaves them ore connected and brings in the comfort they require in a relationship. Hold a strong communication equation with your partner and be open about your fantasies and also what you expect. Low self-confidence may harm relationship in some way or the other. Having sex frequently does as much good to you as it does to your relationship. It helps you shed all the insecurities you may have about yourself. It makes you more confident about yourself. You want to be with someone who accepts you for the way you are, loves every shortcoming and encourages you to be the best version of yourself. This comes out of trust. Building trust takes longer than building a bond and making love frequently brings you closer to each other. Sex in a monogamous relationship increases your level of commitment and emotional connection with each other. Expressing love through sex increases the likelihood of couples staying together forever. In addition to increasing oxytocin and decreasing cortisol, sex also improves your sleep because you release a hormone called prolactin when you orgasm. A good night’s sleep is the foundation of a healthy lifestyle and increases mental wellbeing. The more intimacy you have in the bedroom, the more intimacy you’ll have outside the bedroom. Kissing and cuddling after sex leads to a more satisfying and happier relationship. But of course, to reap those post-sex benefits, the sex has to come first.

Paolaa988 · Accepted Answer

Very important not everything but we need good sex and often.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

For those of you that know me on this site you know I'm balls to the wall flying bat shitt crazy sometimes but I don't want this to be taken down for several reasons first reason is I need a point or a few of them I could have picked up any of those sexual videos on YouTube I went with the Seinfeld the old lady with a gigantic growth on her face who has sex from Mahatma Gandhi back in the day now why would I care about some old sucker that's dead well the way she says it is that even Elaine Benes look to her and it made me realize all of us could be like her someday and it's good to have the memories to fall back on how do I am going to take this another step I want to be that old and still have that passion I don't know about dipping my ball head into oil but I still want to Rock the Casbah.

I have one ex-girlfriend say that to me. Sex is not important I'm promptly showed her the door another one gave me a peck on the cheek while she gave it off to everybody else so I went out with another person with the same name as her so I can not get the names mixed up who gave me that passion girlfriend number two when am I finished pumping gas in the car she just grabbed me 45 minutes at the gas pump and nobody bothered us if I recall correctly they were clapping for us it was a perfect moment no bad breath no interference no cock blocking no nothing just passion yeah she married somebody else that's another story.

We were born to be bred with each other and to hold each other sexually anything less is uncivilized. So either let's get our freak on or get the Freak Out check your crusty ass out that door and don't come back unless your comeback correct and I am erect. It's a spice of life.

TheCunningLinguist · Accepted Answer

Very. I though otherwise when I was younger but, my first marriage became devoid of sex and it was miserable. If you want to be the sole item on someone's diet, you must not starve them. That is cruel and leads to estrangement and eventually them seeking intimacy elsewhere.

CourtneyJane · Answer

Very important, but not as important as having a connection with my partner.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

It is a necessary but not sufficient condition. A good relationship must have a satisfying sexual relationship but that, by itself, is not enough to make the relationship a good one.

ushagomez · Answer

I think great sex is important.

Leavesbound · Answer

It should be part of it but it's not the most important part of it.

Andreaslag · Answer

Not important as long as he is OK with me getting it from other guys

Agape93 · Answer

Very important

exitseven · Answer

It is very important, right behind love.

Ripper_E · Answer

There are far more important things, and it really depends at what stage of your life you are in. As people get older, they know what they want, they've been there and done that. When you are very young, 13-17 it is not important at all.

Browneye57 · Answer

14? Ask your mommy. This isn't the place for children.

Ironic_Method · Answer

Very important. I wouldn't stay in one if the sex wasn't good and often.

DaveToo · Answer

Some form of sex is essential for our human bodies. Whether it's man and woman, man on man, woman on woman, sex is a prime motivator for every one of us. That's why even in a relationship, or not, we masturbate to relieve tensions that build up during the day.

Dragan · Answer

Very important but not everything.

Stevefiveo · Answer

It is very important.

TheBigGuy9 · Answer

It shouldn’t be anything to you at 14. I’d say sex is 30% of a relationship. Their is so much more than that, especially as you age. Use your time as a kid to go to school get good grades get into college or whatever you want and get a good profession. I wouldn’t get serious til after 24.

Twalli · Answer

Fairly, because I am looking for marriage

nawtee_me · Answer

Sex is very important in a relationship, it helps you bond with the one you are with. It allows you to show them that you care about their needs. That is as long as they are bot selfish due=ring sex and want just for them to get off. Sex is about the others need not about your own, or it should be...

what do you think?

JamieLoves · Answer

No sex no relationship!

FireFox01 · Answer

Not that important. If everything else works out, I can do with less/lower quality sex.

Maspolomas · Answer

It should happen at least once a day

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