How important is sex to you when in a relationship?

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Bricealan · Accepted Answer

Well, that is a sensitive issue right now. Have a 'friend' now for the last several years. (10) to be exact. She has been married three times, has two sons. We have been 'FRIENDS" for that period because we have common interests (concerts, travel, last minute excursions, dining, house things etc.

This is a long answer, 'RelevantJ", but bear with me, about the sex part. She knows I jack off, ( thinks I jack off too much, and she masturbates as needed.) TMI? Let me go on. ( I have seen your responses to posts and know you have a sense of humor) So , one night we started French kissing, and she showed a lot of tongue, and so did I, I felt her up a little, and played with her labia, and she said "you're a good kisser, we need to get together" Why not then, I don't know?

That was in the Fall of the year, and New Years Eve was to be our 'fuck night". We went out had a good time and came back to my home. We took pictures, She was wearing stretch pants, got me hot, but when we got in bed, I finger fucked her and her vagina was the size of my middle finger ! HONEST TO GOD ! Blew me away. Well, I could not get a hard-on, and ended up eating her out. She had a screaming orgasm, that would have woken the neighbors had a window been open. ( I don't know if that screaming was real, or an act, to this day I wonder)

Bottom line we still go out, and enjoy ourselves, but no fucking. ( After seeing how tight her pussy was, I am beginning to wonder if even with a very stiff penis, if I could have gotten in her.
How important is sex to me. VERY ! If I could not jack off I would explode. I enjoy her company and we do a lot of things.

This is a HELL OF A LONG ANSWER I know, and you have the whole story. Sex is important, but in this case, well you have the details.

Bruce

Caliguy88 · Accepted Answer

Well it says you are 18. You worry about what you’re ok with. I’m older and would expect some at least but I’ve been ok with an ex that took a while to do that. We got by with other stuff for a while.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

It is an essential ingredient for me.

slatyb · Answer

Very. Otherwise it's a friendship.

Agape93 · Answer

Very. It’s how I show my love

Alanna14 · Answer

on a scale one to ten, prob 2

scousejohn90 · Answer

I think its an equal part of a balanced relationship

KatherineJ · Answer

It’s very important, but not the “most” important.

jahaims · Answer

Very

Philyouup · Answer

fairly important.

Lucious22 · Answer

very very important

yesitcanhappen · Answer

It was never important to me. I only had sex when my partner wanted when I started dating. I'm more on the romantic side. You can have sex in a relationship, still be unhappy and still break up.

Twalli · Answer

Fairly important

7771999 · Answer

I don't know how important I'd find it. But rn thinking about it... it would be important for the intimate connection between us. I wouldn't put a percentage on it