How important is your partner's orgasm to you?

While having sex, how important is your partner's orgasm? Do you think about pleasing just yourself or both? From my experience, guys are more selfish since it takes more times for women to orgasm. Not all of them were able to satisfy me.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • “Give and take” is a mechanism inherent to all personal relationships – you cannot expect to receive something if you don’t offer on your own turn. Once the balance between give and take is broken, difficulties arise and partners feel they are not getting too much from their relationship. The real problem is, in fact, not giving enough you reap what you sow. A relationship where one partner does all the efforts and the other always refuses to provide help to the same extent is misbalanced and unfulfilling.

    *"guys are more selfish"*

    I hope you aren't generalizing.

  • if she's not being pleasured, then what's the point? That's what makes sex great: having it with a partner who is enjoying it.

    • I read this in quagmire’s voice

Most Helpful Girls

  • It's very important to me, just as mine is really important to him; we love to please each other. He always makes sure I have mine, most times before he gets his as opposed to after, and sometimes he likes to give me multiple (one after the other) before he gets his first one

  • Not much. Considering he isn't very best at keeping it restrained. I only wish and hope he thinks of mine otherwise.

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  • It is extremely important to me. I have gone to great lengths to finish off my partner when there were times he didn't think he could cum.

  • It's very important to me

  • His pleasure comes first, I can always take care of my needs afterwards.

  • Of course, that is more than half of the fun. When we orgasm it’s kind of a relief feeling, like “finally!” Because she is now, somewhere between 1 and 2 or more but now you can go... sort of like holding to pee in a card ride and getting off so you can finally go.
    That’s how important their orgasm is

  • Super important. It's no fun if one of us doesn't get off.

  • I have found the opposite to be true. I averaged one orgasm to her nine and now I haven't had a climax through sex in over a year and a half. I have always focused on my partners orgasms and have been good with it but it get ridiculous after a while. It should be a two way street.

  • Maybe you are hard to satisfy, and some simply cant? Maybe so. e guys simply aren't very good at control, and can't last. Just saying, for your exleriences, it may not be about intent, or want, but inability.

    As for me, I find it hard to beleive men don't concern themselves with her orgasm first. If in a relationship especially, but also in any encounyer. To be honest, in a one nighter, the girl involved, rarely means much, past two trophies. One for seducing her in the first place (the hunt), and the second for performing well (the conquering). Sex is to feel good, right? I never feel better about myself than the time between a woman's first scream of ecstasy, and her legs stopping from shaking 20 minutes after I'm done.

  • I love getting him off, but he doesn't usually seem to care if I orgasm or not.

  • Very

  • It's not. I'm the selfish one, I'm a pillow princess. Lmao.

  • I like the return business. I take it as a quest to own her orgasm since she will get hooked and the harder she cums the weaker in the knees and the easier she wets her pants when she is around me. I actually like to get her off and not myself and go a couple rounds until it frustrates her such that she now tries so hard to get me off in her.

  • I will do whatever but I can't read her mind. She has to let me know what works for her. Faster, slower, oral, digital, a vibrator, it's all good.

  • Very important I can't be satisfied unless she is , getting a girl off is a big turn on to me

  • As long my partner is genuinely enjoying themselves and their pleasure comes from pleasing me as much as me pleasing them there is no climax or orgasm that is any kind of goal or finish Line. Their pleasure is of Paramount importance to me but whether or not they have an orgasm is up to them and if I'm not pleasing them in such a way to lead them there it's up to them to correct me. So in that respect I have taken the necessity to make my partner c u m completely out of my mind it's totally up to them whether or not they have an orgasm because I will please them in any way that they lead me to know they want me to

  • It'm my principal goal and I'm willing to pass on mine if she doesn't cum first.

  • I would say it's more important just because that really is what I desire more than coming.

  • I try to make her cum before I’ve even penetrated her.

    Sex for me is all about pleasing the other. If we both do that we’re both satisfied.

  • Very. It is way hotter to me to get her off than to just get what I want. But it really just comes down to enthusiasm. If she shows or says that she just wants to submit to me and please me then that's hot. Otherwise I don't feel nearly as satisfied if I am the only one who orgasms.

  • Very important. I always make sure she orgasms first. Keeps her wanting to have sex, which is great for me too.

  • It depends, sometimes it is fun to deny her and make it a game, others I might get her of 10-15 times.

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