How important would you say sexual compatibility is for you in a relationship?

Question

Like if you hate to rate how important this is for you in a relationship what would you rate it.

By sexual compatibility we mean: Sexual compatibility refers to two partners having shared or similar sexual needs, including sexual preferences, turn-ons, and desired frequency.

How important would you say sexual compatibility is for you in a relationship?

SnowedIn · Accepted Answer

I think it's really important during youth and development of that long term relationship. Yes, once we're old it may not matter as much but sexual incompatibility is usually going to lead to frustration between both partners and frustration usually leads to other issues and a fractured relationship.

Guy13 · Accepted Answer

It is needed but not required for a long-term relationship. Prune and a Raisin is what we will look like anyway. Accept that one will not be physically attractive if both parties are committed.

sheenagwapa · Accepted Answer

i can overlook because i can stay eith someone if let's say knock on wood paralyzed. i won't leave. i won't cheat too because love is love. it can move mountains and can make you say till death do us part. do i sound crazy i think at times i sound pathetic but it is what it is

melanieeeB · Accepted Answer

Very important. I guess I would have answered this differently years back but after the second dude... I was very thankfully for my ex and our sex life and now I'm honestly low key hoping that the 4th is going to be good too lol

katiesmuff · Answer

I think it is very important if the relationship is going to last!

petitedollbabee · Answer

5/5. I’ve been in relationships without sexual compatibility and it doesn’t end well.

menina · Answer

I'm not sure if I'm qualified to answer this question since I've never had sex. 🤔 I don't know if my answer would count...

Quackthulu2 · Answer

Its mandatory.

RobT312 · Answer

Yeah it’s almost a dealbreaker. I was in a relationship with bad sexual compatibility and it just didn’t go well…it compromised the rest of the relationship

Sour-rose · Answer

I rather it not be. Sex can be messy and I... well you know ;D

Lucy68 · Answer

I don't know honestly

CubsterShura · Answer

I can handle not being the perfect match, but I can't handle being absolutely incompatible.

MikeTheBartender · Answer

100 percent one of the most. important things. It seperates your lover from a mere friend.

Massageman · Answer

By your scale, 3/5.

llorando · Answer

2/5 sexual compatibility isn't very important to me. i can easily overlook this in relationships.

NostalgiaSenpi · Answer

I dunno. I never thought about it. Never been a relationship to care.

turnpost · Answer

I am surprised women are 5/5 on this. So its more important for them lol

Pudsmucker · Answer

I'm I'm writing this and I would say I need a 5 out of five. If my wife she would say I have not any time to even think about it at this moment. It's not that important for me.