How is it fair that men can have their cake & eat it too?

[Anonymous]

They can have a wife and cheat on her. But no one wants to marry a slut.

Yet they cheat on their wives for the slut... and the slut gets wifed

[MrOracle]

1. Most men don't cheat.

2. If you look at the men who DO cheat, you'll find a very interesting distribution curve. On one end of that curve, you have men who anyone can see has garbage morals and values. They usually grew up in poor, rough areas, raised by awful or indifferent parents who themselves had poor morals. They cheat, they steal, they assault, and they vandalize simply because they were never taught not to.

And on the opposite end of that distribution curve, the other group that cheats at a very high rate are the guys that women generally see as the MOST attractive. The men who are extremely handsome, or extremely talented, the celebrities, and the very wealthy. In other words, the men that most women DREAM of. And those guys cheat because they CAN, and because they have ENDLESS opportunities to do so - women quite literally follow them around and throw themselves at such men. But such men are rare, and we all know it. Hell, women are constantly complaining that there aren't enough of those guys to go around.

3. Side chicks RARELY get wifed up. I'm not saying that it never happens, but it's the exception, not the rule.

4. While you aren't wrong in that these particular men can get away with cheating, they are not AT ALL representative of average men, who CANNOT get away with cheating - nor would most even have the opportunity, much less the relentless tidal wave of opportunity the hot guys have.

5. Men have TONS of DISadvantages, liabilities, and responsibilities that women don't have, and certainly wouldn't want. Overall, the sexes have things pretty even, though of course anyone can point to a few exceptions that have it better or worse than average.

6. Women could quite easily avoid the vast majority of cheaters by NOT choosing to date that top tier of attractive men - but most will date them if given the chance, even if they know with 100% certainty that she WILL be cheated on. Don't you think that every single woman who dated a hot/desirable man THOUGHT and HOPED that she would be the one who changed him? And yet, none of them ever were. Because a man drowning in a hurricane of pussy is going to take advantage sooner or later - you can guarantee it. If you choose a man that every other woman wants, you WILL end up sharing him with some of them. But that's the choice YOU make. For those top guys, the option of them being monogamous simply does not exist, and never has and never will.

Brad Pitt cheated on every woman he ever dated, including both Jennifer Aniston and Angelina Jolie. If those women can't keep him faithful, what woman could? Tiger Woods was married to a Swedish bikini model, but he also literally had busses full of women who would follow him around and "make themselves available to him" in the hopes that being a side chick would eventually lead to a promotion to wife (it didn't). I could give you plenty of other examples, but the point has been made.

[love_conquers_lust]

Please point out the sluts and present your evidence, so I don't make the same mistake. They're hard to spot and read. You don't want us trying to figure you out because you're the ones who want control getting inside our heads "what are you thinking?" Then here you are complaining that we fuck the sluts, when a lot of us will fuck anything with two legs and a heartbeat given enough desperation. Having libido and being promiscuous do not always intersect.

[Pοrnytail]

Men can have their cake and eat it too, and it's not fair at all! It's like they get to have the best of both worlds - the warm, loving comfort of a loyal wife and the wild, untamed excitement of a sultry mistress. But what's really messed up is that these cheating bastards don't want to settle down with the slutty mistress, they just want to have their cake and eat it too! They want to be married to the sweet, innocent wife while secretly fucking the naughty mistress on the side.

And the slutty mistress, she gets stuck with the cheating bastard who's only with her for the fucking, not for the commitment. She's the one who gets left in the dust, her heart broken and her pussy sore from all the dirty, dirty sex. It's a damn shame, really.

But you know what? It's time for us sluts to take back the power! We don't need these cheating, cake-eating bastards in our lives. We deserve better - a man who's willing to give us the love and commitment we deserve, without all the cheating and the lies.

So, let's raise our fists in the air and shout it loud and proud: Fuck the cake-eating bastards! We deserve better, and we're going to find it! Let's show these cheating bastards that we're not going to take their shit anymore! Let's take back the power and be the sluts we were born to be, and find the men who will love us for who we are, not just for the fucking!

Fuck the cake-eating bastards! Fuck them all! Long live the sluts! #SlutsLivesMatter

[love_conquers_lust]

Yikes. Sluts aren't attractive to me. Sexy women are. So if I don't know, it's going to be hard to tell when you all dress pretty damn similarly. Which means you're going to have to talk. Which means I'm going to be getting inside your head. Which means you won't have total control. So, you gonna have to make peace with that. Or it's the slut life for you, apparently.

[SexyBrunetteNY]

That may be the case, but the truth is, there are other scenarios. Sometimes it's the wife who's not worthy and her doesn't treat her hubby right, which sends him into another women's arms. And most likely, that 'slut' loves him. Lives for him, can't wait to hear his voice, loves his body from head to toe - you get the picture.

Some people just plain fall in love with someone else who's not their husband or wife. Are there sluts out there? Sure. Are their man wh*res who live to cheat? Sure. But the thing is, it's best not to classify every situation as black and white.

Often times, I find that men benefit from having two wives, one F/T official wife, and one P/T 'side' wife who treats him like #1, so yes, men do often want this kind of lifestyle and society accepts it.

Lastly, I want to say this, as a more mature, older woman speaking here, I feel sorry for men. Because they're designed to 'spread their seed' and yet they have to live with constant temptation with their hormones making them want to f**k anything that moves. It can't be easy. At least for women, we're the ones who want commitment and love with sex, guys just aren't usually that way.

[Gent207-2]

That's fucked up and completely not true. Unless your saying you'd rather make a hubby put of a cheater?

[ProbablyClueless]

Men that cheat catch a huge amount of shit

[Danny_dan92]

Women do it too. Welcome to dating in 2023

[jimmy2]

Looking at the wrong thing honey bran a bat and go swinging if he cheats

[Anonymous]

Sounds like a you problem As in you have been around and dated shitty men. Thats your fault. Choose better. Most men do not cheat.

[Anonymous]

You are forgetting that when one has their cake and eats it, they do not consume peace and righteousness. Everything you just described holds no loyalty, love, peace or wisdom. I wouldn't want any of that cake because it is empty and fruitless!

[Anonymous]

I would not marry a slut, nor would I have sex with her since sluts have human papillomavirus.