How long before your first orgasm during sex?

I've had sex 3 times and have not orgasmed once. I have gotten somewhat close the second time. The 3rd time was like 3 weeks later and hurt like it was the first time and I didn't get close. How long did it take you girls to orgasm?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • It wasn't until about two or three months of having regular sex like two or three times a week. I was fortunate enough to be able to talk to my Mom about it; she suggested clinching down, like stopping in the middle of peeing. It didn't work the first, second... Time but maybe like a month later of just clenching away that I got that familiar feeling, begged him not to stop while I had a mild orgasm. Today using that same technique after getting pretty excited before, I have some toe curling, jittery leg orgasms not once but often twice. Thanks Mom, I Love you!!!

  • I took my boyfriend and I roughly 1 year or being regularly sexually active (at least 4-5x/week) to find out that I could cum from sex (completely by chance). After we found out that that was even a possibility, we've since perfected what it takes, as in what angles he has to thrust at and what kind of mindset I have to be in, to get me to climax nearly each time we have sex.

  • I could orgasm myself. But it took me 6 or 7 partners before I managed to orgasm. The 7th one, it took me 5 months of constant sex until he and I both managed to make me cum.
    Believe me, its okay, it will take time, you just need to find a zone out face in your mind, and be very detailed about what you want.

    • Do you think it has to do with the way of having sex so the more you know about your body the best result you can get or it depends on the partner?

    • @Dexamethasone a bit of both really. Knowing yourself is crucial, you could ask your partner to do exactly what you want rather than him going "blind" to figure you out. But each person is different. Different pressure, rythum, movement. So even if he does what you ask, it might not fit to your liking. But it's because of him you are aroused and feel connected. So some girls are satisfied with any touch they receive. I am difficult, because I can't reach my orgasm easily, even on my own.

Most Helpful Guys

  • it wasn't until my second time. I felt so bad to because lost my virginity with a close girl friend of mine and she was all about making me climax since she did and I just couldn't the first time so I lied and said I did. Just waiting until the second were I was able to. though I was able to make myself orgasm by masterbating long before then so I don't know which one counts.

  • Masturbation orgssm? you should be able to get the orgasm anyway just ask the guy to go longer

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  • I've had sex a lot and it's never happened to me. Some girls can't orgasm from vaginal sex.

  • I still haven't. He can get you off before or after sex.

    • It's totally common for women.

  • You are way too young to be focused on that. Worry about school not having sex. That's how teen pregnancy happens. And these boys don't care about you. Once you get pregnant they move on to someone else.

    Just be patience and wait. Sex isn't going anywhere.
    Delayed gratification!!!

  • The first guy I had intercourse with never brought me to an orgasm except by oral and by a kinf of fingering.

    But with the second one it happened after three or four times.

  • And do you have orgasms when you masturbate?

  • From actual sex? A few months, but only after we figured out what works for me. (Foreplay-lots of foreplay, and clitoral stimulation)

  • It took me 12 times before I got it right.

  • The second time. She had one first!

  • Do you orgasm when you masturbate?

  • On my first try? 10-15 seconds.

  • I've never been able to climax from sex and it's normal. Most women can't because we also need clit stimulation. It's not normal for a women to be able to climax JUST from penetration.

    • There are exceptions of course but it's not usual.