How long did it take for penetration (with a partner) to become pleasurable?

So far, according to my other poll (please vote if you haven't), only about half of sexually experienced female voters said that their first penetration was physically pleasurable.
As a note, I think this is one of the reasons why girls should be selective regarding whom they allow to penetrate them: make sure it's someone who's patient, and desires your comfort and pleasure.

Regardless, as a virgin myself, I was wondering how long it generally takes for penetration to become physically pleasurable?
How long did it take for penetration (with a partner) to become pleasurable?
I've never engaged in penetration with a partner
Vote A
Penetration was physically pleasurable from the first time
Vote B
Penetration was physically pleasurable from the 2nd or 3rd time
Vote C
Penetration was physically pleasurable from the 4th or 5th time
Vote D
Penetration was physically pleasurable from the 6th or 7th time
Vote E
Penetration wasn't physically pleasurable until 8 or more times
Vote F
Penetration never became physically pleasurable
Vote G
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Most Helpful Girls

  • my first time he was gentle and it felt amazing. We only did it for like 7 minutes though. Anytime after that? eh... I'm not going to lie i did enjoy sex about 40% of the time, but it usually just hurts. When I got my stitches after my 2nd child I noticed my ex LOVED it but it usually hurt me. I haven't been interested since really🤷‍♀️
    Communication IS KEY!! I know you'll hear that often, but quality communication doesn't work if you are with the wrong partner who is impatient and selfish. 🤷‍♀️ Pick a patient and gentle partner and it should feel good from day 1.

    • Why did you get stitches? You had a C-section?

    • Nope. 3rd degree tear in vagina. So they basically see it back up.

    • *sew

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  • It took a few tries. Communication is definitely key. If something isn’t working, tell your partner to readjust or try something new. It’s so important. In the beginning it sucked, but after my fiancé and I started talking to one another more it became infinitely better for the both of us :)

Most Helpful Guys

  • for me it's taken months, weeks and days depending on the girl/woman. it's a comfort thing that is personal to everyone. i know guys that think women are just a hole to be used and have no problem getting pleased by anything with a vagina.

    go at your own pace. the first time is not an example of the future. it will get better when you are comfortable and learn each other.

  • All my girlfriend's werent virgins when we had sex. But with one, she said my penis was particularly thick. So with her, it may have taken a month or two of regular intercourse for us to really mesh well and her to really start enjoying penetration.

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  • Just because the first time isn't pleasurable physically, it doesn't mean the guy didn't care, rushed and wasn't careful. It may be just because it's a new thing, the girl doesn't know exactly what to do and what directions to give the guy, if she's never done it.

  • Its not about how many times, its about how comfortable a woman is with her body to know exactly where her spots are and isn't emotional traumatized by anything in between the partner and herself. She would have to be 100% comfortable with the person physically and emotionally.

  • You're getting me turned on just reading this question lol. I think for me (since I'm not a virgin anymore - 8 years on!), I think it depends on how lubricated the female is and how attracted she is (emotionally and physically) to said partner. If she isn't, it's going to be a lot harder. Sex can be a very relaxing/soothing experience! Oh Lord do I miss it! Also, it can get quite intimate. I miss it actually sometimes. I am single right now lol thanks for reminding me!

    • Haha... You're getting me turned on reading your commentslol

  • Mine only hurt for a few seconds because his penis was Girthy, but if you are tight and nervous of it hurting get used to getting fingered first, definitely helps in the long run

  • Look Penetration is pleasurable, the moment he starts to penetrate I'm enjoying it tingling senses all through my body.

    You say women should be selwctive about who penetrates them what if thwy love the person. And know one knows until it happens. Also the first couple times with a new partner is always a little awkward it won't be the bestright away!!! Two people have to learn each other's bodies.

  • My 1st time was very painful. But that only lasted a couple of minutes.

  • From the first time

  • A few times

  • First I guess, though I pulled out pretty fast.

    For my partner, the first was both painful and very pleasureable.

  • It was pleasurable the first time but I didn't orgasm. I felt pleasure but never orgasm'd until like the 4th time.

  • The 2nd and 3rd time it was, but certainly not the first.

    I've only done it 3 times anyway though.

    • What changed from the 1st to 2nd and 3rd times?

  • First time was not good but the 2nd time was really good

  • On the first time. Still is. 100%

  • Do you think being nervous makes girls muscles contract and difficult penetration?

  • First time.

  • When you've had a few partners and have some experience.

    • what do u mean by few like how many

  • I fucked my 1st faggot yesterday, I’ll ask him

    • Hehehe...

    • Koocl

  • Yup, from the very first time.

  • The 2nd time, it was pleasurable.

    • Why not the first time?

    • I was raped at 11.

    • I'm sorry :(

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  • From the first time it was pleasurable

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