Girls, How long do you like sex to last?

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I have a hard time finding a woman Who can go as long as I like to. Many women I have been with at least in the beginning do their best To keep up (they like the challenge and bragging rights) But once the relationship has lasted a while they no longer seem to be able to keep up.

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Lilmomma09 Xper 4
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Anymore it doesn't last very long.. I wish it did. My boyfriend and I had sex for 9 hrs one time. I know that sounds like a joke but it's not. It was when we first started seeing each other.. I miss that.. Now sex rarely happens.. When it dies its like 10minutes. It kills me! I mean I don't want to have sex for 9hrs every time Lol I would have no life.. But at least 30minutes! Otherwise it feels rushed. Life's too short not to have great sex.. When I was married I hated having sex!! I never wanted it. I swore I could live the rest of my life without it. But my husband was a horrible person. It wasn't until I met my boyfriend that I realized how much I loved having sex. Now he hardly wants to. 😏
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- TheCunningLinguist
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  Holy hell you just described my life! Except it was about 8 hours on average. But I would like to at least have an hour or two. 30 minutes is just too quick for me, Unless it's every day multiple times a day. And occasionally still even push for those eight-hour ones on special Occasions.
- Lilmomma09
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  Well I was stuck in a marriage where I hated having sex because my husband was such a horrible person. Once I got away from him I realized it was just him.. Not sex that I hated.. I would like to have sex everyday. So I'm saying thirty minutes is good if its an every day thing.. But if not I would like it to last longer than that. I've only orgasmed twice during sex. But it isn't about that to me really. Its the connection and experience in general.. I don't sleep around. I like to be in long relationships but the good sex only last a few months then its gone. I don't understand why that happens.. Stress.. Life.. I get it.. But sex makes things better in a way. Lack of sex is just another thing to be stressed about in my opinion.
- TheCunningLinguist
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  You are preaching to the chior. I haven't climaxed by anything other than my own hand Since last October. The giving oral is probably the thing that I miss most if I'm not having sex. That in the connection found During real intimacy.
kushQueen Xper 4
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at least 10min excluding foreplay, half an hour at the longest
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- TheCunningLinguist
  +1 y
  So... only quickies?
- kushQueen
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  I guess so, I mean I usually get bored after a half hour if it's not the first time I've fucked the person, you've got to have extra stuff if you want it to last longer, try some new things
- TheCunningLinguist
  +1 y
  Always new things. I have a very broad taste and skillset. Not boasting, just being honest. The women I have been with have always spoke very highly of my abilities. After a few months, they become like guys, one O and done. I end up taking care of myself more often than not after that.
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- kushQueen
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  to me it sounds like you have a higher sex drive then most and once that "honey moon" phase is over you discover your partner just isn't able to keep up anymore. I think your just going to have to keep looking for the girl who can satisfy you or find a girl who is more important to you then finishing
- TheCunningLinguist
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  What I don't understand is that they could keep up for hours earlier, I don't mind not finishing but every 9th or 10th time but I wonder why they stop trying to keep up. I'm not asking them to go the eight hours or more that they did in the beging but, at least a couple of hours. Does that sound self of me to ask. 30 minutes or less hardly sounds worth getting undressed for.
- kushQueen
  +1 y
  hahaha I'm 21, most guys don't even last 30 min... but no it doesn't sound selfish, I'm surprised the girls even tap out before you finish, guys who don't make a girl finish are considered selfish so... have you ever tried talking about it?
- TheCunningLinguist
  +1 y
  I have talked about it. It always ends in excuses why. That's why I'm asking here. I can't be the man who goes through this.

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Amber77love Xper 3
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I've only had a guy last about 10 minutes :( I've never orgasmed. :/
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- TheCunningLinguist
  +1 y
  That is the sadest thing I read all week. And the includes your question earlier today. Someone should fix that... yesterday! I mean like oral till you can't speak and intercourse until you can't walk kind of fix that. On behalf of men everywhere, I am so sorry.
- Amber77love
  +1 y
  It's okay I have the worst luck... I'll find mr right one day.
- TheCunningLinguist
  +1 y
  Don't we all sweet girl, don't we all.
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- Amber91
  +1 y
  Same here. He's in and done.
- TheCunningLinguist
  +1 y
  @Amber91 WTF is wrong with these guys! I would be doing anything and everything to fix that! I have the exact opposite problem and these kind of stories make me thankful.
- Amber91
  +1 y
  Yea. I spend time on him and he doesn't return the favor. Long story
- TheCunningLinguist
  +1 y
  @Amber91 It sounds like you need a new dance partner.
- Amber91
  +1 y
  Well maybe. But I have been married to him 6 years and have 2 kids. I have just learned to start pleasing myself and being happy
- TheCunningLinguist
  +1 y
  @Amber91 Well I certainly wouldn't want to see the dissolution of a family. But I would definitely say That he needs to step up his oral game To see that his woman is pleased.
- Amber91
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  Haha. Yea. Not even once... I will stop jacking her feed.
MMarina Xper 5
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I like it slow, very slow (changing with fast but going back to slow) so I love it taking a long while. The guys brag as well, mind you. My ex said he lasted for like 3 hours and it was over in less than one in most cases...
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- TheCunningLinguist
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  I by no means meant to say that only women do that. But I only have experience with women as that is my only interest.
- MMarina
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  I guess people overestimate their abilities?
- TheCunningLinguist
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  Indeed! lol I imagine for many of them it is also compared to subpar partners that they've had.
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- MMarina
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  What is subpar?
- TheCunningLinguist
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  Below average or low.
- TheCunningLinguist
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  If the only Partners you have are lacking of quality Then it can give you an inflated sense of skill or stamina. Only when you have partners with the Skill and stamina to test you do you truly know what you're capable of. I have had great partners in my life but none of them have found my limits.
Tlala70 Xper 2
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As long as I'm wet, keep going
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Anonymous
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Including foreplay at least an hour. But for the actual sex anywhere from 20-40 mins.
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- TheCunningLinguist
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  Is that your prefered minimum or maximum time?
Anonymous
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At least an hour to two hours, but gotta switch things up. Can't just be the same position or activity the whole time.
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- TheCunningLinguist
  +1 y
  Thank you. I don't see how anyone can enjoy less as their regular sex.