How long do you wait to have sex with a guy you’re dating?

[Anonymous]

Honestly I always end up in friends with benefits situations since I have sex with the guy too quick so what’s the best amount of time to wait? I know it’s what you feel but I don’t wanna keep going off what I feel because I always like having sex so if I do that it will be too quickly. and I feel like guys try harder before you have sex so I’m scared that if I have sex with this guy then there won’t be a challenge anymore for him.

[Anonymous]

Make the guy work to get into your panties. What I mean is make him take you on dates, spend time with him outside of the bed. Hang out, play video games or go for a walk or play basketball. I understand that you want to have the sex as well but a guy willing to put in time doing other things is more invested in this relationship. I can't give you an specific amount of time. I'm just telling you that if after the first date you fuck him, the only thing he's going to want to do is fuck. Friends with benefits situation. If he has time and money invested in this relationship, in that time frame he's going to get to know you and both of you will figure out whether you two are compatible or not

[summiter]

It is different for all coupes and it depends on their age. I have had sex the first date and also have waited for a few weeks. Sometimes a handjob earlier on has been a great start. How soon have you started with guys?

[CindyRuns]

The earliest in a relationship that I ever had sex with a guy was after a little more than 4 months !!!

[Guy13]

At least a year if over 21 !

[Asker]

That’s very long

[Guy13]

It takes that long for a guy as we do not grieve if we are constantly getting attention. Body counting in a stuck Rebound position

[spartan55]

Funny how that works huh?

[LazerBean]

After marriage.

[melanieeeB]

Until we both feel comfortable enough

[melanieeeB]

Oh uhm well for me it was always different... the 1st I waited 5 months (ended up as an on off "relationship"), with the 2nd 3 weeks (ended up being an unwilling ONS) and with the 3rd... we were friends for years first but from the moment it became more to having sex was 1 month (ended up being the best relationship for now but ended) I think there is no right time to wait, but more the right person, also one male friend once said, even the biggest player would wait 8 months and more just to get his goal and still leave

[melanieeeB]

And I also knew the 1st for a year prior of us dating

[Kaneki05]

Doubt I would be the first to mention so whenever they want I guess.

[Summeroflove]

You should wait until marriage. I am. But I don't date guys

[BarryLiverstone]

Wait until you are in love. Everyone can be in lust the first month but love takes time. How many times have you actually fallen in love?

[Iron_Man]

Get married first

[JCole223]

I wait about a month

[Twalli]

I won't have sex earlier than 3 months.

[9214xs]

Whenever you feel comfortable. Doesn’t matter if it’s 10 minutes or 10 months, whichever floats your boat

[ThatMadGuy]

I’m a virgin by choice.

so never.

marriage is the only way to have sex In my opinion.

If responsibility isn’t there than a relationship would never succeed.