How long does it take for you to feel a strong attraction?

[Tstrbrainer]

Hypothetical scenario. You are required to stay with a stranger of the opposite gender for an indefinite period. You have your normal social life, but you would be staying with him/her.

How long will it take to develop sexual attraction towards them and would you make a move in either of the following cases.
1. You are married, or in a relationship.
2. You are single.

[ChrisMaster69]

I’ve done that and you can have it with zero attraction.

I've been away with a bunch of girls and had zero attraction.

it’s not about being horny for every girl going, some just don’t click, others are friends, others are a fucking pain.

it’s like being away with a bunch of guys, you don’t usually make friends with them all to same level.

[Tstrbrainer]

It's like being with a bunch of guys, but you don't have sex with them, right? 🤔

[ChrisMaster69]

It’s being with girls but not actually wanting to fuck them just because they have boobs. With guys it’s like you all don’t become amazing mates, with some you won’t stand them, others friends etc. Emotions override physical attraction, also it needs both to want to. You might be attracted to 4 girls but they might not be to you. If you get no return attraction, then you simply kill any you have for them. I’ve done 8 month deployments with women and not been attracted at all, then passed a girl in Hong Kong air port and had to go after her to chat to her.

[Tstrbrainer]

Yeah. But I don't need any attraction for casual sex, as long as it's an adult woman, I'm okay

[DonkeyDan]

Well if in married or in the relationship then is a mute point. But if single it will all depend on attraction, if I'm not attracted to them no amount of time will change that.

[PrettyPriya]

If I were in a relationship no way I would be staying with another man under any circumstance as it relates to your option 1.

If I were single…time would certainly depend on whether there was a connection, not just attraction physically but emotionally.

I don’t just sleep with someone just because they are good looking 😉

[Tstrbrainer]

By option one, I was reffering to employment or research related stuff. They need not necessarily share a room, but still in close proximity

[PrettyPriya]

Ah! Ok so still requires more than physical attraction in any case for me. Yes, had to catch my eye but also my heart for any sort of sexual activity.

[Tstrbrainer]

Wonderful. That's a good way of building a stable relationship

[sumayathemagi]

So you can't feel sexual attraction/lust instantly if you don’t have emotional connection with the guy?

[PrettyPriya]

@sumayathemagi Yes, they are separate things. Like seeing a hot guy and you are physically attracted but obviously no emotional connection. For example, most girls will admit they have a celebrity crush at one time. No emotional attachment but certainly fantasize about “what if” I had a night with him.

[sumayathemagi]

Have you read my question? I asked do you feel sexual attraction when you see random guys whom you never saw before and have no emotional attachment? And what do you mean by physical attraction? What's it?

[sumayathemagi]

You totally ignore when I specifically mention words. What does it mean? Are you a intelligent bigot? Even you ignored my last reply when I specifically mentioned my key point.

[PrettyPriya]

@sumayathemagi I haven’t ignored. I get many messages, mentions and replies on the forum. I cannot respond to everyone at once. I also have a life outside this site.

[sumayathemagi]

Can you now answer this?

[PrettyPriya]

@sumayathemagi Yes there are times, though not often or always, where someone may catch my eye and give me sexual attraction.

[sumayathemagi]

Not often or always - is there any reason why not always or not often? How rarely it is? Why do you feel sexual attraction rarely? Is it because of women unique sexuality?

[PrettyPriya]

@sumayathemagi I would say it is more rare than men, but who am I to say? I cannot jump inside someone else’s mind. It is rare because I look, as most girls do, for other things first. Personality, attractiveness, smile, humor, manners, etc before sex. However, it is not to say that I have never been like “damn, I would do that guy” purely on a sexual feeling. I’m just saying that I believe it is most likely more rare in females than males.

[sumayathemagi]

Then how I was wrong when I said, women don’t feel sexual attraction when the see random men in the street without getting to know him, without knowing his personality? If it’s rare means it’s an exception, an exception can never be an example. It’s like saying if you see 100 attractive men in the street everyday still you will not feel sexual attraction, you can feel it once in a blue moon. How would you know about someone's personality at the first sight? Even his humor, manners etc? After seeing a guy how would you know there is sexual attraction or not without knowing personality, humor, manners etc? Then suppose if you are single and have no opportunity to get to know guys practically, humor, manners etc then it mean for a long time you are asexual, you have no sexual urge for men because you feel it rarely? Just tell me how I was wrong?

[PrettyPriya]

@sumayathemagi Because you are saying ALL women feel that way ALL they time. You are telling us something you cannot know for sure.

[sumayathemagi]

All women don’t have vagina. So I am talking about all women but I am talking about majority of women. Who knew that you are such a intelligent actress lol. You are trying to prove me wrong when you and majority of women are exactly the same. Do what's the point of your comments? Lol big lol. Just to earn xper? Just for xper? Do you even know what you are telling and what you have told before? I know majority of women are demisexual/asexual. They feel sexual attraction very rarely may be once in a blue moon. You told me I was wrong. Fucking wrong. Like your destination was to prove me wrong without any cost when you said the truth, exactly the same thing as like me. I am still confused about your role. Still. What do you want to say.

[Still-alive]

@sumayathemagi you lost this fight dude. Just take a knee and bow out now :)

[sumayathemagi]

Simp detected.

[Still-alive]

@sumayathemagi typical 😂

[Tstrbrainer]

And he is inactive. 😂

[Still-alive]

Lol we got him!

[PrettyPriya]

@Still-alive @tstrbrainer Well done guys! 👏👏❤️

[Still-alive]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-YCN-a0NsNk

[PrettyPriya]

Thank you kindly for mhg 🥰❤️

[Tstrbrainer]

Welcome

[dustybiker]

I know I’m really attracted to someone when I have a hard time even looking that person in the eye when meeting them. Biological attraction turns off my brain and makes me incredibly awkward. Learned to ignore it and go after them, as they are the keepers.

[DizzyDesii]

I can grow attracted to someone really quick. As for sexually attracted, not as quick but quick. I would not make a move while in a relationship with someone. And i’m not into hookup culture so im not gonna try to sex them while single either

[Tstrbrainer]

So fantasies then 😉

[DizzyDesii]

Nah I dont fantasize about what I could easily get. I just prefer to talk about our emotional attraction to eachother. I need that twintuition

[sumayathemagi]

If you are single how would you feel sexual attraction?

[DizzyDesii]

@sumayathemagi lmao is that a serious question. How do you think people get together? They have to be sexually attracted to eachother (usually while single) before getting together

[sumayathemagi]

But you have said you don’t feel sexual attraction quickly. Then what's the process? If you see a guy in the street you can know whether you are sexually attracted to him or not?

[DizzyDesii]

@sumayathemagi i’ve never met Roman reigns in real life, but yesterday he looked so god on tv, i wanted to ride his face. Bam sexual attraction. Did i feel it quickly for him in a day? No. I've seen that man on tv for like 2 years but yesterday it just hit me outta now where

[sumayathemagi]

So, you have to see a man for 2 years then you can feel sexual attraction? Like it takes 2 years for you to feel sexual attraction?

[DizzyDesii]

@sumayathemagi no lol. But it takes longer than one day

[sumayathemagi]

So, instantly you can know that whether you are feeling sexual attraction or not? If you see a guy for the first time then you can't know whether you are sexually attracted to him or not?

[Gwenhwyfar]

I might not develop attraction ever. I’m picky.

[Tstrbrainer]

Okay. What if it's a woman or a guy you find appealing?

[Gwenhwyfar]

I’d wait for them to approach me

[Tstrbrainer]

Oh shy girl, right?

[Gwenhwyfar]

Passive lol

[Tstrbrainer]

But how long should they wait before making a move?

[Gwenhwyfar]

Not sure

[exitseven]

ten minutes- I'm not kidding.

[Tstrbrainer]

That's too long lol. Don't make the lady wait

[exitseven]

Too funnny thanks for that.

[Slayerrrrrrr]

As long as it takes for her mouth to reach my head...

[karaspara]

It can be almost instant or build up over time

[karaspara]

If i'm in a relationship no chance if i'm single sure why not

[Tstrbrainer]

Well, one should be lucky to be around you.

[karaspara]

LOL that's debatable 😂

[Tstrbrainer]

Maybe. Pics don't tell your personality. But still you look 😍😍😍

[ChiPaPa]

1. Nope. You can work alongside attractive people and not actually do anything.
2. Depends. I'd have to be sure that they're single and willing to date me. I'm a lot more cautious than i was ten years ago.

[Twalli]

The first would never happen, the second would depend on how she looks and acts.

[YalancıBahar]

Sometimes a few months, sometimes a few minutes

[Tstrbrainer]

I don't even have to see her, sometimes 😅

[YalancıBahar]

lol. Maybe with her photos:)

[Tstrbrainer]

Don't even need photos here 😂

[B4852]

A strong attraction can be very fast. But deciding to take the opportunity can be a long process.

[Peach132]

Fast but if you have sex you got me faster

[Tstrbrainer]

My kinda girl

[Anonymous]

A couple seconds

[Tstrbrainer]

Too long