How long does it take you to cum?

Both masturbating AND having sex? Sex it really depends on the person but I guess 15-20 mins, and about 30 for masturbating
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  • when i masturbate, i like to edge and let it really build up... at least 60 mins... usually around 90 before letting myself release... when having sex, lots of variables including how much foreplay... i want her to cum during foreplay and when having sex... the actual f-ing time... if we're off the chart amped up and into a quickie can cum in 5 mins... if not rushed and enjoying some good time together, good 20-30 mins of foreplay with 20-30 mins of f-ing... sometimes more if it's 2nd time that day or whatnot... then i like to go down on her after... it's the triple play i like to get with having her cum at least once during foreplay, sex and after :)

  • I don't usually masturbate because I don't turn myself on just kind of shape about 3 hours but it all depends there are times where it's different for guys turned on you are about the situation if a guy is going to lose it quickly it's because he's like excited to be with you but there's a lot of times where I just would hold off until my girl was satisfied so sex would take an hour or so. But there are those times when trying to run baseball stats of chewing on your arm to draw blood doesn't work at all so that's why you never fault the guy take it as a compliment give me about 10 minutes till he's got a second wind and then look out

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  • It can be almost instantly if there is enough psychological stimulation ahead of time to get me worked up into a frenzy, ie - fantasizing, dirty talk, some erotic art, BDSM or porn! ... and of course being touched in just the right way and place prior to getting serious about it will do the "trick" as well... lol

    How long does it take you to cum?
    • I guess you will cum pretty soon with a tongue on your clit and fingers in your ass.

    • 2 fingers one min to squirt if a guy knows what he is doing... giggidy giggidy

  • Never had sex but masturbating takes as quick as 2-4 minutes if I am really horny or up to 10 minutes if I’m not that horny. I don’t insert anything, I just rub my clit. If I watch porn and I’m super horny then it might be even quicker. The second time might take a couple minutes longer though.

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  • Everyone has a particular area for sex simulation at greater rate.
    For example for some it is nipples, lower abdomen, butts, thighs etc..
    If you play more with these they get sex simulation quite faster.
    The most common is the pussy and clockwise and anti-clockwise twist near G spot is the perfect way of reaching orgasm at quicker speed.
    First is body part where you have weakness then the G spot, rub it slowly in clock and anti clock wise..
    You will reach orgasm in 10 to 12 mins..

  • Is there a fixed timeline?

    I remember taking a long time to mastrubate at times and sometimes just a couple mins.


    Same is with sex, depends on your mood, her mood, the ambience, how tired you two are, your level of intimacy and what you had for breakfast.
    I wish there were an easy answer.

  • I have masturbation down to a science at this point. A couple minutes tops. Sex? Depends on my partner. It doesn't take my husband long at all. 5 minutes maybe for the first one, they just sort of roll after that.

  • A lot depends on my mood at the time.

  • It also depends on the person when having sex , it all depends on everything thats going on ,,,, and if I can lead love lots of 4 play 30 min to 1 hr to 1 1/2 hrs
    Masturbating. = 1. To 5 hrs this also depends on a lot of things by myself,, roleplay with some one , or phone sex with someone,,

  • I don't cum during sex. Never have for some reason. I can cum anywhere from 10 minutes to an hour when I masturbate though.

  • When i`m masturbating if i`m wanting to just do a quick one, from starting to make myself hard to cumming and can do it in about 3 or 4 minutes, but most of the time i like to edge and can make myself last for an hour to an hour and a half. When i`m having sex it takes me maybe 20 minutes before i start to cum

  • For me, 5 mins when I masturbate (though when I edge myself it's 12 - 15 mins, and it feels sooooooo pleasurable when I do cum)

    For penis-vagina sex, 15-20 mins if I pace myself and she does too, and if/when we cum together from our dual intercourse "edging" it feels truly sensational for both of us

  • It depends on how much effort I put into it. If I'm just having a quick wank then around 5 minutes. If I'm trying to enjoy it maybe 30 to 45 minutes

  • i like sex to last at least an hour but when it comes to masturbating i can do it all day before i allow myself to cum

  • 15 minutes for sex or when I masturbate. The second time is usually faster.

  • I got injured of an IED (car bomb) and a shrapnel did hit me very close to my privates and did some nerve damage which leads to i can take a long time till i achieve ejaculation. Masturbation can take about 30-40 minutes
    Sex can take less time (i wish it did every time) but it takes time as much as masturbation and the wife is a quick orgasmer and things can get dry and unpleasant so moist, lube is my best friend here.

  • As long as it takes for her to cum

  • I can cum in 10 minutes with clit... but I like taken my time and holding it

  • Depends what is being done

    • Reminds me of Peter in Family Guy, starting foreplay by playing a trumpet 😂

  • For sex id say it takes about 15-20 mins also and for masturbating it depends if i edge but usually 30 mins onwards

  • Five minutes or so for either.

  • Depends on a lot. Masturbation for me can take anywhere from 5 minutes to an hour. It has been a while for sex so I would probably shoot off fairly fast but back when I was regularly having it I could usually last at least half an hour to an hour.

  • 2 min from masturbation and the best girl who make me cum the fastes whas olso 2 min

  • It depends on the partner. If they are enjoying we can have it for 45 min also... But if they are forced to have it only for 5 min.

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