How long does it take you/your partner to cum from a blowjob?

I can't get my hubby to finish from a blowjob, ever. It just takes too long and I give up when my jaw starts to hurt, any tips?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • It's quite difficult. I never came from a blowjob ever. Some girls quit after a few minutes, some went on for 15. I really can't tell why it doesn't make me cum because it feels amazing. Maybe don't force him and yourself to making cumming the only goal. If he enjoys the blowjob, that's should be good enough. When your muscles start to hurt, you should be able to say that and stop. Nobody is forced to continue whenever it hurts.

    Other than that, communicate with each other. My girlfriend and exes felt less pressure when I said nobody made me cum trough blowjobs (or handjob). We communicated about what I liked and enjoyed the blowjob as a foreplay or just as it was. Communica is key. (doesn't have to be during)

  • I think it just doesn't happen for some guys. I've never cum from oral, and usually it's too much stimulation. I risk getting desensitized and then the sex suffers as well. Regardless of all that, It's still very pleasurable for me. If I could give one suggestion, don't put it straight in your mouth. Tease him first with your tongue and your lips. That's what I would want anyways

Most Helpful Girls

  • you don't have to put the whole cock in your mouth... just worry about his cockhead... get on your knees and do some licking kissing and sucking... it can take long as 30 minutes but it's rare... most guys cum in the 10-15 range... generally it's fun and enjoyable to give a blowjob... I usually wear a miniskirt or strip to bra and panties when giving a blowjob and guys always cum for me... I stick with it and don't allow myself to get tired... deep throating can tire you out in many ways... it definitely fucks up your mascara and eyeliner... but any guy will be happy if he can cum in your mouth and you swallow it for him.

  • He takes forever to cum cause he masturbates with a firm grip, sometimes I do it for 15 minutes and then he takes over with his hand. One time I did get him to cum in my mouth and he didn't do anything but he didn't cum the night before. It's annoying at times.

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  • Depends on the guy, and what I am trying to do to him. Guys (like girls) can have totally different needs in what does and doesn’t do it for them. Have you had more success with other partners?

    • A once or twice with an ex but he also used his hands and I had to get drunk because it took hours.

    • Sounds like you just need practice. And I don’t know a single guy in the world who wouldn’t want his girlfriend to keep practicing.

  • I've mentioned this elsewhere, but if your husband is circumcised, chances are that he can't orgasm from oral. It's pretty common due to what's lost from the surgery.

    There are ways of working around it if that is the case, but if he is cut, don't feel bad. It's nobodyls fault but his parents and the doctor who performed it.

  • Speed up your movement as it progresses, keep it wet and keep a steady rhythm

  • I'm circumsised thus way more sensitive then uncircumsised guys. and I love getting a bj, having her tongue tease the head of my cock is amazing. Don't forget to lick the back side of the manhood especially just under the head, so many nerve endings at that point. I love to be teased and edged. If you do it right I'll spurt 7 or 8 hot, thick, long spurts of cum.

  • I prefer 7 to to minutes. On a challenge one girl made me cum from a frantic blow job in two minutes from flaccid.

  • Ten minutes

  • Hm, depends. I've only been with a few guys that I agreed to do it with and it was enjoyable. Didn't take long though.

  • If I want to, a minute or two but usually I take my time so his enjoyment lasts.

  • Dont be a quitter

  • I've never had a woman get me off with a blowjob

  • He takes about 15mins. Sometimes longer

    • That seems like a long time. Doesn't your jaw get tired?

    • @BillieJean1070 that's what I'm wondering, how does everyone continue through the jaw pain, especially if you have a big partner

    • Lol his penis isn't in my mouth the whole time. I use my hands too. Sometimes I'll just suck on the head of the penis and tighten my hands to go up and down

  • It takes awhile. For me i tense up if i feel teeth.

  • It takese 4 ever to cum from a blow job
    Probably cause I'm not a huge fan of receiving I'd much rather be giving

    • did you ever have a girl kneel before and just suck you until you cum... I don't mind length but I like the guy i'm sucking to cum

    • Yes absolutely I have but in the time it takes me to cum there are way better things I'd rather be doing to her

  • Cares his balls gently while piling down on his shaft while sucking on the head and if you have to use your teeth.

  • my partner blow me then fuck at the end i cum in her mouth sometimes half and hour sometimes but sometimes 15 minutes

  • It takes me about 10 mins to make him cum off head

  • Try to lick when you feel tired

  • I love bjs. I can't cum from them currently. But then again if I could really smash a throat I might

  • I have never cum from a bj but I do really enjoy it. I have a hard time getting comfortable enough to just let go. For me I have to have a sensory overload.