How long does sex usually last for you?

How long does sex usually last for you?
Not including foreplay, just penetration.
My ex man was usually 3-4 mins, new mans is around 10 mins
is there any contributing factors that alters your time?
1-2 mins
Vote A
3-4 mins
Vote B
5-6 mins
Vote C
7-8 mins
Vote D
9-10mins
Vote E
11 mins and up
Vote F
30 seconds
Vote G
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Superb Opinion

  • We both want the penetration phase to last about 30 minutes. Sometimes it takes longer for her to cum. PIV alone almost never makes her cum. Usually, I rub her clit during penetration, or she does, or we use a vibe. We’ve been together a long time and we know each other’s body well. She knows when I‘m too close to the edge and we just slow down briefly. That’s all it takes to make it last a long as we want. Some positions are easier than others. On occasion, we don’t cum together and one of us gets finished orally.

Most Helpful Guy

  • She likes to go fast (bent over the bed) so we do that until she's happy. Then I give her a little break and then she lets me go as slow as I want (missionary or her flat on her belly). She also really likes to ride me, but her legs get really sore the next day. So it depends on what we are doing, we go as long as she needs, it really varies from 10 minutes to an hour. Average = 15-20 minutes for her 5-10 minutes for me.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Most of the guys I have been with lasted 5-10 minutes on average, the longest a few hours on and off.

    None of which were satisfying 🤦🏼‍♀️

    • You know I feel ya. Too many quick draw McGraw’s in your life.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Usually about 20-25 min.

  • However long it takes to please her is the biggest factor. I'm easy, so the goal is to make her enjoy it.

  • If a man grabs my wrists like that about four seconds.

  • It's depends on a lot of things. The relationship, the mood and the chemistry. Every girl is different in bed and they all want the last longer than 10 minutes 🙄

  • 1 2 3 hours

  • I last about 20-40 minutes depending on how I feel.

  • Really depends on the Mood and such. Have gone in a few minutes to half and hour on average. If I have been drinking then hour+. Also how strenuous and what we do affects it

  • It all depends on how long you want it to last I’ve had sex that lasted 30 minutes or quickies 5-10 minutes