How long has it been since intimacy?

Anonymous

12 years here.. I've had men tell me to get laid why would I?

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2 mo

I don't do casual intimacy or friends with benefits

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LaFemmeFatale_1 Guru
2 mo
3 years. Scares me to say out loud.

Sometimes, I feel like I am wasting my youth.

Was in a relationship for 3.5 years. The last 2 years of Long Distance were sexless as we were unable to visit each other due to China’s dumb Covid policy and then there’s 1 year of break up. All in all, 3 years.

I remember I was having this calendar, in the first part of long distance, counting days since the last time I had sex and a countdown till I’d get to go back to my boyfriend back to China. 1 day, 2 day, 3 day, 4 day and I think I stopped counting after 3 months, the numbers if the days were getting too high and it intimidated me.

Don’t even want to think about how many days are in 3 years.

God, that’s crazy.

But I promised myself not to have sex unless I am in love and in a relationship.

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- Asker
  2 mo
  I count the calendar. It's been 12 years no love making
- LaFemmeFatale_1
  2 mo
  Why not?
- Asker
  2 mo
  Waiting on the right man
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- Asker
  2 mo
  I don't sleep around
- LaFemmeFatale_1
  2 mo
  But 12 years is a lot. 3 years turns me crazy almost. Out if these three years I’ve been single for only 1 year. Dated 7 men or 8? Not sure. None of them - relationship material.
- Asker
  2 mo
  No man has been worth the effort
- Asker
  2 mo
  Single 12 years celibate 7 years
- LaFemmeFatale_1
  2 mo
  So you haven’t had sex for 7 years?
- Asker
  2 mo
  Correct
- LaFemmeFatale_1
  2 mo
  Cool. Don’t wait too long.
- LaFemmeFatale_1
  2 mo
  I think sex had the effect of a medicine for me and the longer I go without it the more anxious and insecure I get.
- Asker
  2 mo
  When I do get the right man he'll be satisfied
- LaFemmeFatale_1
  2 mo
  When I was sexually active, I felt like I was the sexiest woman in the world. Not exaggerating. I forgot what the word “anxiety” meant.
- Asker
  2 mo
  Yesss it's gonna feel amazing as it's been a long time ⌛️ with lovemaking
- LaFemmeFatale_1
  2 mo
  Hahaha Girl! Don’t wait too long!
- Asker
  2 mo
  A nice long rod 🥴🤣😍
- LaFemmeFatale_1
  2 mo
  You can’t go against your nature for long. Your body is created for sex. Just like everyone else’s.
- Asker
  2 mo
  Yes with the right man 👨
- LaFemmeFatale_1
  2 mo
  Okay, okay. I won’t be graphic. All, I am suggesting is - Don’t wait for a prince on a white horse, he’s not going to come. Just love and be loved and maybe lower your standards a little bit. You are young, sexy woman. You deserve some love.
- Asker
  2 mo
  Yes but celibate and have someone in mind who I care for
- LaFemmeFatale_1
  2 mo
  Does he care for you too or are you the only one caring? 😝
- Asker
  2 mo
  He does just working on some stuff
- Asker
  2 mo
  We're building towards a relationship
- LaFemmeFatale_1
  2 mo
  Cool. Make sure he’s not wasting your time and just a totally friendly reminder, from a girl to girl, men love with their eyes, make sure you look your best for him, If you’ve got extra kilograms - Hit the gym, Wear the make up, Get all dressed up for him. And don’t be depressed. Men hate unhappy women. Now you do it all for yourself and a man will appear like a fish seeing the worm.
- Asker
  2 mo
  Thanks ❤️
- LaFemmeFatale_1
  2 mo
  My pleasure, the best of luck to you 💖

Most Helpful Guys

Nifrayu Xper 7
2 mo
It's been about 2 years for me. I'm actually hoping I can make a friend with benefits. It's been too long and for some reason my libido has grown these passed few months.
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- Asker
  2 mo
  Mines did too , but can't sleep around too many stds out there
- Nifrayu
  2 mo
  I've never been comfortable with casual sex and that's partially why. My fiance has been encouraging me to find another sexual partner because she has lost all interest in sex. Until recently I have resisted the idea but I am finally ready to accept it.
- Asker
  2 mo
  OK hopefully you can find her
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- Asker
  2 mo
  No causal or friends with benefits
Gent207-2 Yoda
2 mo
Married - it's been 2 months of self-service to memories of my ex.
Last time we were intimate it ended in a sad handjob. I have never felt so ashamed.
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exitseven Master
2 mo
An hour ago.
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LavLavLuv Guru
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5 days for me
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eagle1951 Master
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been since July 2005
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  Longer than me
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Anonymous
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Never had never will.
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