Guys, How long have you stayed in a relationship just for the sex and why is that enough to stay?

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  • I never have. If it doesn't feel like we are right for each other, I cut it off (gently). That said, part of it might relate to my views on sexuality. I never needed a "hole" to stick it in. :-D I wanted someone I was really compatible with. My desires were much more complex than just a body to spend the night with. I had a hand if I was still in search of one like this. Things sometimes moved very quickly to the sexual side when I was single, but I cut it off regardless, or more often we both kind of did at the same time (most times without such hard feelings) if it became apparent that we weren't right for each other.

    • I always needed to be into much, much more than a girl's body to even be really into her body if that makes any sense.

    • I never thought much in terms of numerical ratings but my idea of attractiveness also varies wildly based on what I know of the girl. It's like I've been with girls where maybe, at first, I thought as high as 8/10. But it's like spending time with them made them drop for me to a 3/10. It's not that their looks changed or anything like that. It's just that I learned something about them that made me find even their body no longer so appealing... like one time I dated one who turned out to be an emotional mess, gave me an ultimatum to choose her or my friends, and instantly she went from "hot" to "ugly" in my eyes and I ended the relationship. I'm like that. I need to be into a lot more than a girl's body even to find her body very attractive.

    • Another way around as well, like I dated ones who I thought might have been very average, nothing extraordinary about their looks or bodies, only to learn something about them that made me fall for them so deeply that I started to think they were 10/10... even their bodies became most attractive, and I couldn't stop craving them sexually. But initially, I would have thought little to nothing about them.

  • I have friends with benefits I have known for 3-4 years. Some of us fuck every week, others not as often as they moved away. As long as they are nearby, we fuck.

    • I meant would you stay in a committed relationship with someone (that you don’t see a future with) just for sex

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  • Like 8 months. She gave great head but we both knew we were most likely going to break up. Other than sex and foreplay we weren't compatible.

  • I have know a few guys to stay for months just because they are getting sex

    • Why is that enough though?

    • Free sex was clearly enough for them to stay

  • Like a year. But it was the best sex in my life and would do it again.

  • Sex in a bad relationship is bad sex.

  • Of course guys stay for sex. What else do you think you can offer? ?

  • All the time.
    I don't ever fall in love or have ever felt it before.
    So all my past relationships were just for sex and the longest I had been in one was 6months.

  • I don't do that, I try to build a relationship.

  • One date