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How long into a relationship do you decide not to use a CONDOM?
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45 71We will never stop using condoms until we are ready to get pregnant.
After you make a date to get tested together (and have been monogamous for any relevant incubation periods).
I have an IUD for a goalie which hasn't failed me yet, nor have I been a petri dish. Geez, how's that for a bad mixed metaphor...
I said when they are both exclusive and committed. I will add to that-when both are comfortable not using one. One should never feel pressure by the other to go without. If they do, they don’t respect your feelings.
When we are ready to have children, Likely after being in a healthy, trusting relationship for more than a few years
Golden life rule... As long you have doubt, keep the condom. At some stage in your relationship you know you could probably stay with him and or start a family. Then it is self explaining.
I think after a few months.
When you decide to want kids
haha you think birth control is very fun and harmless? birth control is the reason why so many kids nowadays are born with adhd and autism or down syndrome. Back then such cases were rare, now its getting increasingly common. I always stick to condoms. I don't want my future kids coming out fucked up. If my boyfriend insisted that I stop using condoms, I can tell him to immediately fuck off. I will dump him without no guilt.
Really birth control pills can make your kids in the future have autism, Down syndrome, adhd? How?
@snuggems Birth control can also increase your risk of cancer, osteoporosis, and a myriad of other diseases. When a woman has sex, she naturally is supposed to get pregnant as a natural part of the process. Birth control alters this natural process and confuses the body in many ways. Its kinda like taking a pill so you won't have to poop. All humans are supposed to poop. Its unnatural to not poop. And its not good for the body to avoid pooping either. Understand that there are natural functions that the human body must maintain in order to be healthy. Distortions are not good for your health.
Thanks for telling me. I’m a virgin so I’m safe haha. What about when a woman is already pregnant and she takes the pill to get rid of the baby a termination? Does that cause diseases? And also I heard myriad is genetics of cancer.
I knew birth control could effect infidelity but I didn’t know about this
I mean fertility sorry
I understand completely what you’re saying and it does make sense
@snuggems I don't know much about abortions but typically abortions are very bad for a mother's reproductive health. Once she aborts a baby, she is at increased risk of miscarriage or pregnancy problems with her next pregnancies. Doesn't must mean that all her next births would fail but just an increased risk. If she's had two abortions, she should be extremely careful about getting pregnant again.
It seems the only safe option is condoms
Where did you get this information from?
@snuggems Many people in other countries haven known about the effects of birth control on kids and negative effects of abortions on a mother's reproductive health for many decades already. Its just that americans are not informed about this because US is a capitalistic country. American Medical industry is a business where they profit by sell medicine at extremely high prices, which is the same reason why there are so many people without health insurance in this country. If people stopped buying birth control because they've been informed its bad for them, the medical industry will have no profit. For example, People say that sunscreen is the best for protection from skin cancer but in reality, shielding your face by wearing a spf sun hat would give you way more protection than sunscreen. It is all a sales tactic. People are more likely to run out of sunscreen than run out of spf hats. They want people to constantly buy sunscreen. Sunscreens do not filter out 100% of uv rays either. Hats do way more for you.
@snuggems Taking birth control once for a short period of time will probably not do too much harm. But for women who take it long term such as 4 months of more, it is best for them to wait a long period of time, anywhere from 2.5-5 years, for her body to slowly flush out some of the traces of birth control. Just because you stop taking it, it doesn't mean the traces of the pill is gone. There will be still amounts of it inside you.
Never have used a condom. Always have tried to use protection.
Marriage. Lol
My soldiers don't march anymore... lol
Meaning I got snipped.
Me and my lady didn't have sex until 3-4 weeks later.
We both got checked and committed to each other.
Our sex life is excellent. We both have no reason to cheat.
We have a strong connection.
Not worth losing that over a piece of ass.
We did after like a few months but he pulls out
Pull out can work but you gotta be good at it! For sure!
I’m also on bc
When you both feel the connection that they are only into you and no one else
I think me and my boyfriend stopped after 3 to 4 months. We were already in a committed relationship and very in love. We spoke about me getting a implant after a friend suggested it to me as it had a lot of pros and i didn't think the pill was best suited to my busy lifestyle
I’m on birth control and he pulls out. He loses his erection trying to get a condom on
As soon as it goes exclusive (usually I suggest both of us getting tested for STDs first).
In the attempt to conceive. Otherwise, ALWAYS use a condom. Always.
What's a condom?
Aha, you're implying here that she should use another way of prevention and refer to condoms only for STDs. Didn't get that at first, so my first answer is: until they want kids.
Yeah C pretty much