How long into a relationship is too long to wait for sex?

A year
Vote A
6 months
Vote B
A month
Vote C
No such thing as too long
Vote D
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  • My parameters:

    1) meet almost everyday for at least 3 hours each date.

    2) both "felt" the romance and wanted to be with each other.

    3) love is optional initially, but preferred after 3 months.

    4) both are virgins.

    With the above, the longest waiting period should be no more than 1 year.

    Reasons:
    A) if either felt not ready, then through proper communication the waiting period is definitely sufficient.

    B) if they want to get the best experience for their First Time, then months of planning will help get the better results.

    C) a max time to wait, which means both can countdown to it. Very sensual when comes the last week.

    To conclude, I'm not saying cannot be 6 months or 9 months. But 1 year is max. Beyond that, I think something is wrong with the relationship.

Most Helpful Guy

  • For me, sex is contingent on a strong emotional connection. If ti's not there, at some point she's a friend and I move on.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • If a woman isn't interested in sex after a couple of months, I'm going to conclude that she just isn't all that interested in sex, and we won't be compatible. If there is no mutual desire, then there's no point to the relationship.

  • When you have cycled through all your doink buddies at least twice and there is still no open for business sign on her window...

  • More than a month is too long.

  • A few weeks of talking/going out

  • 20 minute

  • pretty much any amount of time waited past the point in time where you knew you wanted sex.

  • If you ain't banging by 6 months I'd start wondering what is wrong psychologically speaking

  • No set time

  • I think the wait can be indefinite, just as long as it needs to take for it to happen.

  • Depends on how many dates

    • And how much time you spend with them

  • A month if you feel no connection where you want to get physical then you don't trust them enough to get intimate

  • Wait till you're both ready

  • Technically D. It’s when you’re both ok with it. My first girlfriend waited three months. Worth it.

  • A month is too long

  • until you both feel it "right" maybe 5 days, maybe Never

  • Year and a half.

  • Only a year

  • A week after marriage.